I'm so ... one of my BM's just called me crying.... She is in the BP of another friend of ours, and they went for their fittings this evening on the BM gowns... well, my BM happens to be larger in the hips & small in the waist, and it tugged a little here & was large a little there...
The bride turns around and says... 'Is it going to look like that?'..... My BM was appalled. Then the seamstress says 'No, I can take it in here, take it out here...' The bride turns around and says 'Is it going to look good?'
all this in front of my BM, not off to the side or anything like that - she embarrassed the he11 out of my friend, and has caused some severe animosity right now between the 2 of them.
so word to the wise ladies... just be careful when you are speaking around your girls.... remember they are your friends, and are helping to celebrate one of the most special days of our lives!!!!!!!
LnP2003
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no.... she's not worried about that at all! she's just not thinking of what she's saying! i know this girl!!!!!!
she doesn't realize
MarcellaBella
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That's not cool..
Jen2704
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That wasn't nice
alfordk9
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Not nice at all. You know even though this is your time we still need to think about those involved and try and be nice to them at least. We are asking them to give of their time, money and all over resouurces we should have the common courtesy to at least be nice. That was SOOO mean of that Bride.
ChristineC68
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That's really awful.
I am sure your BM will look beautiful and that the seamstress knows how to alter a gown. There's no reason for the bride to knit pick over the dress like a mother to a child.
Scoop
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wow...what a rude comment to make. She completely insulted and disrespected your friend. I would be fuming right now.
Jordan
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Egad, that was rude! I hope your friend wasn't too hurt by your other friends insensitivity.
Side note: That happened to a friend of mine - we went to David's Bridal to look for BM dresses for my sister and the seamstress 'was in a rush' so she took my (very obese) friend's measurements right in the FRONT OF THE STORE! For that reason alone I won't recommend DB & I wrote them a letter saying as much.
