changing dates

My aunt called me to let me know that the weekend I planned my wedding, my cousin is graduating from The Citadel in South Carolina. So there goes part of my family down south that weekend including my two cousins as bridesmaids.
So I guess I have to change the dates. The place I originally put a deposit on (Rob wasn't crazy about- although he hasn't seen it) so it gives me an excuse to change venues. My contract says Pending Groom's Approval since I explained he lived in St. Louis. At least we will get our deposit back.
Good thing the only other thing I booked was the band.
Well I am just stressed out because I am hoping the other places I loved, Rob will like and it will be available for one of the three weekends I have picked as alternates. I know it will all be decided in two weeks when he gets here. But I also know I will be stressed until then. We have so much to cram into those three days.
I just need to vent. I hate how everything is now up in the air!

Don't worry. Everything will work out. I know it can be frustrating. We are here for you!!!

I am so sorry you had to change your date. It will all work out for you. This happened for the best and the place that you do choose both of you will be sooo happy when you do.

What places are you looking into?

Thanks everyone.
Well I had seen Milleridge and North Ritz Club and loved both of them. So I am going to take him to see those when he comes in town.
It just seems like without a place/ date I can't do anything else, but it is all for the better probably.
Thanks for your support

I'm so sorry that you had to change your date. But there's is enough time still to get everything done. So don't worry too much.
I've heard great things about the North Ritz and Milleridge. Good Luck!