Hands down that is CHEATING!!! My philosophy is this: If I wouldn't want my FH doing it, I would not do it myself-bottom line. I cant imagine my FH kissing another girl. Kissing is so intimate. it seems like your friend is off to a bad start. I really wish she didn't feel that way. perhaps there is something wrong in her relationship for her to feel this way? Maybe something is missing? I dont know.
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Kissing is cheating end of story.
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Thanks so much for everyone's opinions! I thought that maybe I was wrong or a prude or something for thinking it was so WRONG for her to be doing it. It has changed my opinion a little about her...I feel disappointed in her.
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I wouldnt do it !!! yes that is cheating , and if it was no big deal why dose she keep it from her FH , also how would she feel if he were the one doing the kissing???
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I think kissing is cheating, but not everyone feels the same way. The fact that she is not truthful to her FI means in a way she thinks it is wrong, or she thinks that he might not see it the way she does. There lies the problem. If it weren't a big deal, she could be honest with her FI. There are people out there who are very open with their relationship.
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Kissing is ABSOLUTELY cheating and your friends knows that. That is why she is not telling her FH about it!!! She knows what she is doing is wrong, but she is trying to make excuses for her horrible actions. If she ever saw her FH doing that, she would probably be heartbroken! I feel so bad for her FH that he has no idea what she is doing and who he is marring. Sorry you have to see your friend doing this and keep this secret! It must be killing you!
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Posted by anne1rules
Well...what do you think about when your FH goes for his bachelor party and has a naked woman all over him in a lap dance. Is that considered cheating? Just want to know what you guys think.
No, to me this is not cheating. I agree with the others...he's paying for it...he's not making out with her...he's not allowed to touch her. Completely different from kissing someone.
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she may not be doing teh nasty deed but if she's keeping this from her FH then yes. she's cheating.
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Posted by SomethingBlu
Posted by anne1rules
Well...what do you think about when your FH goes for his bachelor party and has a naked woman all over him in a lap dance. Is that considered cheating? Just want to know what you guys think.
No, to me this is not cheating. I agree with the others...he's paying for it...he's not making out with her...he's not allowed to touch her. Completely different from kissing someone.
I agree, I dont think it's cheating. I know he wouldnt hide the fact that were stripper around, maybe cause he knows I dont care. I would never be a stripper, but my stepsister is one. (everyone GM is excitd about her coming to the wedding - silly boys)
It baffles me and I dont agree but some woman get stuck in rut and have no educational background.
If you really want to be honest, half the woman zone it out when they dance and the other half are lesbians.
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ummm yeah it's def cheating....
wow.... I guess she feels like she is missing out on something? is she young? maybe she is not ready to make a commitment like marriage at this time....
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I wonder if her FH would kiss a girl when he is out, will she consider that cheating???? Or is it only OK when she does it???
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Kissing is being intimate and being intimate is cheating.
Well put. I completely agree.
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I would not do anything that I would not want FH doing and I DEFINITELY would NOT want him to kiss anyone!!!
Absolutely cheating!!!
I agree. That's always what I try to think of - how would I react if he did it. I klnow I would be devastated. Always keeps me in line even when alcohol and hot guys are in the scene.
Yes - hot guys- I am engaged...not dead.
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that definitely cheating no ifs and or two three four buts about it.
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woah woah woah
kissing is cheating, bottom line.
Word.
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Cheating!!!!! Without a doubt!!
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[QQUOTE] I agree with you- I am not going to say I LIKE the idea...BUT it happens...and IMO it is not cheating...unless he does some touching- (which is not even allowed)YUCK... or anything more...but a simple a lap dance is not cheating
So its not cheating because she gets paid to grind on him naked? I'm sorry, but the whole bachelor/bachelorette party thing kind of creeps me out. Its still a NAKED person rubbing all over your fh. (And this IS NOT directed towards anyone in particular)
it disgust me also, so rauncy & gross,
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Is she kidding me? Kissing another guy while you're engaged to be married=cheating.
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Posted by Greeneyes8705
[QQUOTE] I agree with you- I am not going to say I LIKE the idea...BUT it happens...and IMO it is not cheating...unless he does some touching- (which is not even allowed)YUCK... or anything more...but a simple a lap dance is not cheating
So its not cheating because she gets paid to grind on him naked? I'm sorry, but the whole bachelor/bachelorette party thing kind of creeps me out. Its still a NAKED person rubbing all over your fh. (And this IS NOT directed towards anyone in particular)
it disgust me also, so rauncy & gross,
It does sound gross when you put t that way.. but if the GM decide to take him out I am not going to say no - Maybe I am NUTS!!
Mrs. V 2008
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I would definately say that is cheating...You can't be too happy with the one you are with if you are looking elsewhere..so why is she engaged?
