Kissin is cheating, I can't see why anyone else would think otherwise. And if your friend doesn't think its cheating the why doesnt she let him know about it??? Kitty
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[QQUOTE] I agree with you- I am not going to say I LIKE the idea...BUT it happens...and IMO it is not cheating...unless he does some touching- (which is not even allowed)YUCK... or anything more...but a simple a lap dance is not cheating
So its not cheating because she gets paid to grind on him naked? I'm sorry, but the whole bachelor/bachelorette party thing kind of creeps me out. Its still a NAKED person rubbing all over your fh. (And this IS NOT directed towards anyone in particular)
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I consider kissing cheating - FI considers kissing cheating...does everyone else - nope, but to each his own I guess.
There are couples out there that are 'swinger' and they do far and beyond kissing....and it's not considered cheating....
but shes not telling her FH so i dont agree with this. she is definately cheeting
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agree
Belle06
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Big time CHEATING!!!
DanaMZ
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I would not do anything that I would not want FH doing and I DEFINITELY would NOT want him to kiss anyone!!!
Absolutely cheating!!!
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I think even meeting up someone regularly for lunch is cheating, so you are asking thw wrong person! I mean, meeting without telling your partner...
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I consider kissing cheating, and if she is keeping it a secret from her FH, then it is definitely cheating!
ewickens
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I wouldn't want some other woman's lips on my FH, so yes, I would consider that cheating!
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My way of thinking is this: Would I act the same way if my FH was standing right next to me?? The answer is definitely no of course. So anything that I wouldn't do with him right there I wouldn't do ever in general. That's Dr. Phil's words of wisdom right there! I heard it years ago on his show and I'll never forget it.
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IMO that is definately cheating. Personally, I don't think you need to be engaged...after all, we didn't cheat on our FH when they were still just boyfriends, right?
Talk to a guy. Dance with him. Fine. But kissing is definately out of the question! (Again, IMO)
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This is in reply to the whole lapdance thing..watch G-string Divas on HBO...those women are having sex with these bachelors...with there clothes on. It made me sick. That is cheating IMO.
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Im sure if the tables were turned , and it was her FH doing it to her , I betcha' anything she would say it was cheating then!! DEFINITELY cheating...and im sure she knows that!
RadioLau
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Definately cheating!!!
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Kissing is being intimate and being intimate is cheating.
yayi
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Yes, that is most definitely cheating. It sounds like she is not ready to settle down, if she is kissing other people.
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that's called having your cake and eating it too! it would be one thing if her fiance didnt' mind, i'd say to each their own, but if she has to hide it from him, IT IS cheating. i mean anything that your'e hiding whether flirting, kissing, etc. is wrong if you are not being honest about it.
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Well...what do you think about when your FH goes for his bachelor party and has a naked woman all over him in a lap dance. Is that considered cheating? Just want to know what you guys think.
I know I'm in the minority here, but I don't see this as cheating. But that's just me. I think I would laugh my butt off if FI gets a lap dance at his Bachelor Party.
I agree with you- I am not going to say I LIKE the idea...BUT it happens...and IMO it is not cheating...unless he does some touching- (which is not even allowed)YUCK... or anything more...but a simple a lap dance is not cheating
I agree as well. A lap dance is not cheating - he's paying for it!!! Now, if it goes further than the lap dance...and FI partakes, then it's cheating.
I can't believe the amount of women out there that are afraid of strippers - these women take their clothes off and sell their bodies - isn't it degrading enough?
I have enough respect and dignity about myself that you couldn't pay me any amount of money to take my clothes off. I think taking a step back and weighing in 'dignity vs. cash' - dignity will definitely win by a landslide.
IMO: Women that feel threatened by strippers need to start loving themselves more and the insecurity needs to disipate.
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I would say yes that is cheating, and that it doesn't sound like your friend is ready to be in a serious relationship. What she is doing is not fair to her fiance and should reconsider their engagement.
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IMO, it's cheating. She doesn't respect her relationship or FI if she kisses other guys when she goes out. She doesn't seem ready for a lifelong commitment.
