The whole thought of it sickens me...I didn't know if I was the only one.
JanuaryBride06
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Kissing is cheating! If it's not, why can't she tell her FH?
ETAB
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yeah kissing is cheating..
smara
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It's good to see we have a bunch of loyal ladies!!I wonder if there is ppl on here who don't think it scheating and are afraid to post
stephanielyse
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IMO, anything you wouldn't want your FH to do, you shouldn't do. I know I would be none too happy if FH kissed another lady, so I wouldn't kiss another guy. It's such a rough spot to be in when it's a friend, though. I've been there, it's a very uncomfortable situation.
OctRo05
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It would be interesting to post this question on the Grooms board!!
smara
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It would be interesting to post this question on the Grooms board!!
Knowing how nosey us brides are they'd probably put what we want to hear!!
chrissyandvin
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kissing is cheating! Would she like it if he was doing it??
Maybride519
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Oh man.....Kissing is soooooo cheating in my book.
heidla
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That falls into the cheating category for me. If it is something that you wouldn't tell your SO for fear of them getting upset then you probably shouldn't be doing it.
soontobemrsv
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i agree with all of you, she is out of her mind to think that kissing is not cheating!!!
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Posted by PrincessRose
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Well...what do you think about when your FH goes for his bachelor party and has a naked woman all over him in a lap dance. Is that considered cheating? Just want to know what you guys think.
Yes, as a matter of fact, that is cheating.
As far as I'm concerned, if you are afraid to tell your partner about it, it's cheating.
Good point! My FH went to a strip club for his BP and got a lap dance, but he told me all about it when he got home and we had a laugh. If you have a healthy, trusting relationship, you should be able to tell your partner about anything you do - the only reason not to would be because of how they might react, like breaking off an engagement because she makes out with other guys when she's drunk, for example.
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That is DEF considered cheating!!!
I understand that she's not 'officially' married to her FI, but when you're engaged that's a point where you're unofficially married until the state and/or church recognizes it. Seriously, FH and I consider ourselves married already, the foundation of our relationship isn't going to change.
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Well...what do you think about when your FH goes for his bachelor party and has a naked woman all over him in a lap dance. Is that considered cheating? Just want to know what you guys think.
We didn't have bachelor/bachelorette parties. I think its gross to make a party out of some naked girl rubbing all over my dh. And I do think that is cheating.
july06bride
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Kissing is Absolutely cheating!
MissingTheBGene
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Posted by anne1rules
Well...what do you think about when your FH goes for his bachelor party and has a naked woman all over him in a lap dance. Is that considered cheating? Just want to know what you guys think.
I know I'm in the minority here, but I don't see this as cheating. But that's just me. I think I would laugh my butt off if FI gets a lap dance at his Bachelor Party.
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Posted by MissingTheBGene
Posted by anne1rules
Well...what do you think about when your FH goes for his bachelor party and has a naked woman all over him in a lap dance. Is that considered cheating? Just want to know what you guys think.
I know I'm in the minority here, but I don't see this as cheating. But that's just me. I think I would laugh my butt off if FI gets a lap dance at his Bachelor Party.
I agree with you- I am not going to say I LIKE the idea...BUT it happens...and IMO it is not cheating...unless he does some touching- (which is not even allowed)YUCK... or anything more...but a simple a lap dance is not cheating
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Ummm...I'd have to say it's definately cheating!!! If she feels the need to still go around kissing other men, then she has no business getting married. JMHO
YOU SAID IT!! Kissing is cheating in my world! Bottom line! If she is having some type of sexual contact with another man then maybe she should reconsider getting married
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It's cheating in my book, why is your engaged friend interested in kissing other men? Doesn't she think where has their mouth been last? Does she kiss FH when she gets home?
