Lets just say that if my FH had ever cheated on me anytime during our relationship, he wouldn't be my FH.
nferrandi
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I cheated on DH back in the day. We started dating when I was 17 (I'm now 27) and I did kiss a few people in the early years. DH says he never did, but I do have good reason to doubt that. Either way, that was a long time ago and we were still growing up. I would never cheat on him now and I'm confident that he would never cheat on me.
serendipity0680
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No neither one of us cheated. However we did break up for a while after we were dating for almost 3 years. We were young & realized that if we were meant to be we would get back together. Sure enough after dating other people we both realized how much we loved each other and that together was the only way our lives felt complete.
DrBeLLaRoSe
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similar to nferrandi:
we started dating at 17, so some things happened between then and now (almost 26). but kinda just learning /growing experiences.
Mrs_B
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never and i would never.. he better not either!!
Mishu
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we sarted dating when we just turned 18 and never looked back...no cheating on either partner's part.
buggiegirl
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Posted by N.Y.bride
Christine, thanks! He is my little cutie!!
HE IS SOOOO CUTE AWWWW
natbella
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well, I wouldnt call it cheating but FH and I broke up quite a few times and one time it lasted almost a year...so of course we were both seeing other people! But all that matters it that we found our way back to each other and will be together forever!
Sweetpea130000
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No cheating here.
SomethingBlu
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Nope...I am very much against cheating and as far as I'm aware fi has never cheated. I believe in breaking up if you're tempted...I wouldn't put him through that and expect the same respect. As far as cheating while married...even if we had kids, I would divorce him.
PrincessConsuela
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I am very much against cheating! I was cheated on by an ex and we tried well I tried working things out and I could not get over it so I broke things off finally because there was no trust left. a similar situation happened to my fh his then gf cheated on him.
Not to mention my father cheated on my mother and that also broke my heart as well as my entire families so no cheating for anyone. it is not right!!!!! I will Never stand for that!!!!!!!
Bumsie
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Posted by N.Y.bride
Christine, thanks! He is my little cutie!!
He is a little cutie alright
Ladybug63
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No for both of us.
I think if you have to go somewhere else for something (sexual contact or even emotional contact) your missing or rather not getting something from your current relationship.
I cheated on my previous BF and he cheated too. It was never the same for us but we were also young. I was 17 and he was 19.
That's not to say it can’t be worked out. I know plenty of couples who cheated in Collage but are now married (happily) with kids. I will say this though.. They do bring it up. It is still a 'non-issue' in there relationship. I think it leaves a bead taste regardless. Forgive but never really forget.
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No for both of us. In the beginning i cheated on my ex with my FH. We both do not tolerate that. He know i dont play. However, i used to be a big time playa back in the day.
shhhhhhhhh dont tell
emily27
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I have never cheated...however, it would be nieve for me or anyone else to assume their FH has not....we can all hope!
dbleplay17
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I never cheated on my FH or he to me.
however I have cheated on an ex bf and he to me back in the day and it was NEVER EVER the same no matter how hard we tried.
melissaandsean
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we've never cheated on the other.
Though we did break up for about 9 months, after 2 years of dating and living together (we rushed our relationship big time by moving in together after 3 weeks of knowing one another). So we got back together, and dated (without living together) for almost 2 years and then moved back in together 3 years before we got married.
And I'll add:
Cheating is usually something most people are against. And for most people it is indeed a deal breaker. But, now that I'm married and have made a lifetime committment to my husband, if one of us were to cheat, I wouldn't just give up on us. I think relationships are hard work and if cheating were to happen, it's a clear sign that there is a problem, and one that can most likely be fixed with clear communication from both partners. I'm not saying it wouldn't hurt, or my trust wouldn't be betrayed. I'm saying that you take the good with the bad. sometimes the really really bad, but if there's love there, it can survive anything.
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Posted by emily27
I have never cheated...however, it would be nieve for me or anyone else to assume their FH has not....we can all hope!
I always wonder that. You hear of and see cheating husbands/boyfriends all the time. They have to be somebody's!
I would never cheat on my FI, and he says the same for me. He also says he has a zero tolerance policy for it and we would be over if I did.
