Cheating..What Are Your Thoughts??

donegal419 Posted: Aug 11, 2006 04:20 PM

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I agree, I think our marriage would be over. Marriage is based on trust, and once that trust is broken, it is very hard to get that back, or want to get that back, because you no longer know the person you thought you knew.

PaddysGirl15 Posted: Aug 11, 2006 04:37 PM

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I would call it off if it happened before the wedding. I am not sure what I would do if we were already married.

JessieC Posted: Aug 11, 2006 04:39 PM

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Posted by MJDoc12

my thoughts are this:

if i caught my FH cheating---i would be forced to castrate him and wear his balls around my neck on a chain.

oh and the wedding would be called off...i don't care how much $$ we lost. i'd rather lost thousands of dollars than lose my dignity.

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Oh Yeah! absolutely agree!

MrsMichel07 Posted: Aug 12, 2006 04:15 PM

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I told him he'd be lucky if I just walked away because more likely I'll cut him first.

I think I might hit him in the knee caps with a bat FIRST and THEN slice him up!!!

suzzi7404 Posted: Aug 12, 2006 11:14 PM

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This is such a tough situation. I think some people would want to pretend it never happened but how can you hoestly do that. The whole relationship would be off to a horrible start. THE TRUST IS GONE. How can a relationship grow if there is no trust. I know it would be devestating but I think the relationship would have to end. I always say the day my fiance cheats on me will be the worst day of his life because it will be the last day he ever sees me.

Lissy3077 Posted: Aug 13, 2006 11:58 AM

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Posted by MJDoc12

my thoughts are this:

if i caught my FH cheating---i would be forced to castrate him and wear his balls around my neck on a chain.

oh and the wedding would be called off...i don't care how much $$ we lost. i'd rather lost thousands of dollars than lose my dignity.

I agree 100%%%%%% I don't care how much money i loose, my worth, diginity and happiness are more important to me. I wouldn't be able to live with doubts for the rest of my life..