children at your wedding

Original post by christine2010

Jan 22, 2009 02:19 PM

are you inviting children to your wedding?? or are you haveing a no children policy?? are you going to make decisions about every child separately or a age limit??

if we invite kids to our wedding we would have to include 12 all under the age of 10 years old. when i was young & my parents went to a wedding, my brother, sister & i were never included. after speaking to FH, FMIL, & my parents we all agreed that only my nephew & nieces will be invited.

143dmr143 Posted: Jan 24, 2009 04:44 PM

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im pretty torn about this one as well...we have alot of OOT ppl coming as well, so i dont know. then i have my 2 nieces n my baby brother in the party so, i knw it will start alot of drama. i really want to hire a babysitter and have them watch the little kids, like under 10. I dont know...

Sandradv121 Posted: Jan 24, 2009 04:50 PM

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The only kids we are having are in the bridal party. My visitors from Italy also will be an exception. I really want to keep it black tie, adult only. I think 17 would be a good cutoff. Besides, we have an open bar, top shelf! Let the adults drink and be merry!

JillandJoe Posted: Jan 24, 2009 04:52 PM

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For us no children... There are seven children on each side plus friends children. We would have about 16 children on total so we decided against it.

Its sad cuz as a kid I was pissssed when I wasn't invited, but it just won't work...

mzmahagony Posted: Jan 24, 2009 07:59 PM

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I would much prefer to have no kids at the wedding because I want it to be an adult affair but some family members insist on bringing their kids. For right now it's up in the air

mrsj2010 Posted: Jan 24, 2009 08:05 PM

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Seeing as though we have two children, and two godchildren who's parents are in the wedding, we will have children. But we have a 10 child under 10 maximum. And none from 10-17 really.