FH and I really want to get married in this one particular church, however they require at least one of us to be a member of their church. FH would like to lie and say that he attends regularly. Is this bad?? Am I crazy for even considering this??
INNbride4409
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I hate to be honest but I think they know if you are registered or not..Also I hate to say this also but I think they go by your weekly donations to see if you really go to church or not...
panjay
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Why do you want to get married there if neither of you is a member?
Renee77
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It's a beautiful, old church and it's close to our RH
Autumnbride03
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i wouldn't lie... but maybe you could start going to mass there and register and oula.... you are a member.
Renee77
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yeah, we were thinking of doing that
cedesnyc
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you have to do what you have to do....we did - so if you lied...no biggie.....trust me, the church has larger issues to deal with
regardless, you'll have to sign up as parishoners...right?
bridej9
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Our church needed us to be members and they wouldn't even continue our phone conversation until they checked records.
VeggieBride
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im not religious at all and even I have a problem lying to a priest.
make a hefty donation and go to church every week there and see what happens
BarbieGrl10
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Dont lie to a church!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Maybe you guys could start going to mass?
missjones2007
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Oh no!...that is not the right way to go....just beinh honest
