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Church Meeting Question

storkey7 Posted:

Church Meeting Question

Hi,

We are going to meet with our priest to set the date and time for our wedding. I was just wondering if they ask you about living together and any sex questions.

Thanks
werock0709 Posted:

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They ask if you've ever been married, if your pregnant, if you regulary attend mass. No sex questions though
AMANDA2378 Posted:

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Posted by werock0709

They ask if you've ever been married, if your pregnant, if you regulary attend mass. No sex questions though




is it bad to tell them that you dont go to church reg??? should we say yes??
tonimike Posted:

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Mine just asked where we live , not to see if we live 2gether, but for mailing purposes,, Never asked anything else about marriage b4,, But did ask fh if he can consumate the marriage , LOL

TreAnt425 Posted:

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He didn't really 'ask' us anything - just talked about a few things

AMANDA2378 Posted:

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Posted by tonimike

Mine just asked where we live , not to see if we live 2gether, but for mailing purposes,, Never asked anything else about marriage b4,, But did ask fh if he can consumate the marriage , LOL



NICKEITH Posted:

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I think it depends on the church and the priest. They all have different thoughts and questions. Some are stricter than others.

portjeffbride Posted:

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we were worried about that too.... but the priest didn't express any disappointment after we told him that we live together. (I refused to try to hide anything from the priest.... I just consider that wrong to do...)

Don't worry about it. Although, as mentioned by others, some clergy might get more upset than others. It's always best to be open and honest.
jax1023 Posted:

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Mine didn't ask any of those sort of questions. Just our names, adresses, and home parishes. And he gave us a lovely pamphlet about the catholic church and marriage which some of our friends found quite hilarious!

shelby34 Posted:

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Most priests know how times have changed and they don't ask those questions.
They did ask about church and I was honest and said I used to go once a week, but since I met FH, we don't go as much. He just laughed and said he sees who is the bad influence!

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