We are going to meet with our priest to set the date and time for our wedding. I was just wondering if they ask you about living together and any sex questions.
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werock0709
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They ask if you've ever been married, if your pregnant, if you regulary attend mass. No sex questions though
AMANDA2378
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Posted by werock0709
They ask if you've ever been married, if your pregnant, if you regulary attend mass. No sex questions though
is it bad to tell them that you dont go to church reg??? should we say yes??
tonimike
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Mine just asked where we live , not to see if we live 2gether, but for mailing purposes,, Never asked anything else about marriage b4,, But did ask fh if he can consumate the marriage , LOL
TreAnt425
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He didn't really 'ask' us anything - just talked about a few things
AMANDA2378
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Mine just asked where we live , not to see if we live 2gether, but for mailing purposes,, Never asked anything else about marriage b4,, But did ask fh if he can consumate the marriage , LOL
NICKEITH
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I think it depends on the church and the priest. They all have different thoughts and questions. Some are stricter than others.
portjeffbride
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we were worried about that too.... but the priest didn't express any disappointment after we told him that we live together. (I refused to try to hide anything from the priest.... I just consider that wrong to do...)
Don't worry about it. Although, as mentioned by others, some clergy might get more upset than others. It's always best to be open and honest.
jax1023
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Mine didn't ask any of those sort of questions. Just our names, adresses, and home parishes. And he gave us a lovely pamphlet about the catholic church and marriage which some of our friends found quite hilarious!
shelby34
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Most priests know how times have changed and they don't ask those questions. They did ask about church and I was honest and said I used to go once a week, but since I met FH, we don't go as much. He just laughed and said he sees who is the bad influence!