so, FH and are are changing our church which we have our reasons for....but anyways....while calling the new church we would like to get married at I spoke with the father there. He said no problem about the switch, all we need to do is get the papers I filled out at my church that is booked now and bring them to him. He said he not guarenteeing the date until FH and I sit down with him and do the official date setup. After I got off the phone with the father, FH said to me..'what papers..?? you mean like a letter? Im like no...father said papers we filled out??!
What do you suppose he is expecting me to bring to him?? All the paperwork we filled out was to become a member there....and the pre marriage survery where FH and I had to answer questions seperatly in 2 different rooms....are you sure you are willing to marry your partner blah blah blah...
what do you girls think??
Also, how do I tell the church i am booked with now that I am choosing to not get married there and we are choosing another church without them being offended?
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Re: church question (x-post 2010 board)
Posted by doreen82
so, FH and are are changing our church which we have our reasons for....but anyways....while calling the new church we would like to get married at I spoke with the father there. He said no problem about the switch, all we need to do is get the papers I filled out at my church that is booked now and bring them to him. He said he not guarenteeing the date until FH and I sit down with him and do the official date setup. After I got off the phone with the father, FH said to me..'what papers..?? you mean like a letter? Im like no...father said papers we filled out??!
What do you suppose he is expecting me to bring to him?? All the paperwork we filled out was to become a member there....and the pre marriage survery where FH and I had to answer questions seperatly in 2 different rooms....are you sure you are willing to marry your partner blah blah blah...
what do you girls think??
Also, how do I tell the church i am booked with now that I am choosing to not get married there and we are choosing another church without them being offended?
Yes, I believe he means the questions that you and your FH filled out. I would just call the church and ask for all the paperwork that was filled out during your meeting with the priest (the paperwork necessary for the priest to actually book your date) be transferred to the new church.