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Church send off
Niccolina
Posted: May 11, 2015 11:04 PM+

Posted: May 11, 2015 11:04 PM
Church send off
My church won't allow birdseed, confetti, sparklers, rice... I think my only 2 choices are bubbles or ribbon wands. What will look best in pictures?Or should I scrap it and do nothing?
rcotter90
Posted: May 12, 2015 06:13 AM+

Posted: May 12, 2015 06:13 AM
Church send off
CTK right? lol I feel you.. I'm thinking about scrapping the whole thing. I don't love the bubble idea, but I don't know about the wands either.. THERE'S TOO MANY LITTLE DECISIONS TO MAKE!
Niccolina
Posted: May 12, 2015 06:18 AM+

Posted: May 12, 2015 06:18 AM
Church send off
Yup...CTK. Did you hear Father Brian is leaving in a few wks? We're hoping he still does our wedding next wk. We love him.
Vimaheri
Posted: May 12, 2015 09:49 AM+

Posted: May 12, 2015 09:49 AM
Church send off
What about sprinkles? It looks cute in pictures-idk if they would allow it
NoLiesJustLove
Posted: May 12, 2015 11:46 AM+

Posted: May 12, 2015 11:46 AM
Church send off
I had my ceremony at St. Bernard's and they didn't allow anything but bubbles and bells. I didn't do anything. I just made sure to include the receiving line (as we had a tight time window) and that was it. Good luck!
rcotter90
Posted: May 12, 2015 12:00 PM+

Posted: May 12, 2015 12:00 PM
Re: Church send off
Posted by Niccolina
Yup...CTK. Did you hear Father Brian is leaving in a few wks? We're hoping he still does our wedding next wk. We love him.
NO! We haven't be assigned a priest yet but I guess I better get on it and try and get father joe. My worst fear is having a priest that barely speaks English and is hard to understand.
Ellinator
Posted: May 12, 2015 03:36 PM+

Posted: May 12, 2015 03:36 PM
Church send off
im giving pouches with dried lavender
FutureMrsZanghi
Posted: May 12, 2015 03:51 PM+

Posted: May 12, 2015 03:51 PM
Church send off
what about sparklers or balloons?
rcotter90
Posted: May 12, 2015 03:54 PM+

Posted: May 12, 2015 03:54 PM
Church send off
The reason they won't allow all these things is the liability. Anything you throw (even if it is biodegradable), someone could slip or trip and fall then sue the church. Sparklers are a fire hazard so if someone's hair catches on fire, they could sue the church. This church has more rules than any other I've seen. So frustrating!
Brirosie16
Posted: May 12, 2015 07:33 PM+

Posted: May 12, 2015 07:33 PM
Church send off
I saw a pic of a couple being sent off with paper airplanes. I think those are big enough that they can be picked up without ending up being a safety hazard? Another option, no idea how it would really be organized, is a balloon release. This site had some interesting ideas.http://www.heartlovealways.com/2012/04/wedding-details-recessional-tosses-getaways-exits-sendoffs/
But between bubbles and ribbon wands for photos, I'd go ribbon wands.
Niccolina
Posted: May 12, 2015 07:38 PM+

Posted: May 12, 2015 07:38 PM
Re: Church send off
Yes, Father Brian is suffering from MS and is leaving :( Idk if they're replacing him....nothing has been announced yet. Father Joe is amazing! Other options are Deacon Lou or Deacon Joe. I would request Father Joe. He has a great personality.
Elizabeth77
Posted: May 13, 2015 12:11 PM+

Posted: May 13, 2015 12:11 PM
Church send off
I love the idea of balloons but I worry too much about animals dying and polluting the earth :(Instead I think I will do biodegradable confetti.
rcotter90
Posted: May 13, 2015 12:26 PM+

Posted: May 13, 2015 12:26 PM
Re: Church send off
Posted by Niccolina
Yes, Father Brian is suffering from MS and is leaving :( Idk if they're replacing him....nothing has been announced yet. Father Joe is amazing! Other options are Deacon Lou or Deacon Joe. I would request Father Joe. He has a great personality.
Aww that's sad! FH left a voicemail for Father Joe yesterday. We want a full mass so the deacons aren't an option for us.. although Deacon Joe is so super nice! When he called they said they don't 'assign' priests so far in advance. I'm just worried about who will replace Father Brian!
CoJo
Posted: May 14, 2015 03:03 PM+
queensbride103
Posted: May 15, 2015 08:38 PM+

Posted: May 15, 2015 08:38 PM
Church send off
that's nice!!! did you add little bells CoJo?
Roisin48
Posted: May 17, 2015 07:48 AM+

Posted: May 17, 2015 07:48 AM
Church send off
@CoJo Those ribbons came out great! Did you make them yourself? I may have to ribbons as well, my church doesn't allow anything to be thrown or released, even bubbles!
Roisin48
Posted: May 17, 2015 07:48 AM+

Posted: May 17, 2015 07:48 AM
Church send off
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