Clueless about order of events...

I don't go to weddings often and am pretty much the first in my family generation to get married so I'm kind of clueless of things.

When is the bridal shower? Bachelorette Party?

As for the reception? When do you do the first dance? When is dinner? The cake cutting?

Thanks!

To answer all your questions I think it really depends on what you want and when people want to throw you your shower. Usually a shower is a few months before the wedding. I am going to a shower next week for an April wedding and next month for a June wedding so it really all depends on that. As for Bachlorette party I would have it a few weekends before you get married or it can be longer, it really depends on what you want. As to the first dance I usually have seen it right after the bride & groom walk into the reception when they are announce but that of course is up to you--because it is your big day & you make all the rules--lol. Anyway dinner is usually when your places wants to serve it and usually has it down to the minute of how much time between courses they give. I hope that helps

I found this on Modern Bride a while ago - I thought it was helpful:

Can you give me a timetable for a seated wedding dinner with dancing? Here's a basic outline:

* If you don't have a receiving line at the church, form it during the first half hour of your reception. If you've already greeted each guest personally, take your wedding party photos now.

* During the next 30 to 60 minutes, musicians play, drinks are poured, hors d'oeuvres are served, and guests pick up their table cards and proceed into the dining room.

* Once the attendants and parents have been served the first course, the best man may make his toast, and you and the groom can follow.

* Your first dance and other special dances should take place after the first course has been cleared.

* After these traditional dances, the main course is served.

* Once dishes have been cleared it is time for the cake-cutting ceremony. Guests can take to the dance floor while the caterer finishes distributing the cake.

* After the bouquet and garter tosses, the dancing can continue for an hour or more, with full bar.