co workers...

iHeartMoogle Posted: Dec 10, 2009 11:59 AM

co workers...

I work with 3 other people (for the past week because I'm covering for another person at her post) and they go out to lunch together everyday. They have never once invited me and most of the time leave without even telling me! Yesterday it was a big deal because I was leaving for lunch and did not know where to leave my key (big thing, all the doors are locked and we can't take our keys) so I had to call the boss and ask what to do. Well, she told them they have to inform me when they're leaving. So today, one of the girls comes in and says, 'Do you need to go out? We're getting lunch.' I don't need to go anywhere, but they are so clicky! I really don't care that I'm not invited because I'd probably say no anyway, but I just think it's rude not to ask one person when everyone else goes. What do you think?

Oh, and we're all around the same age.

FutureMrsLMS Posted: Dec 10, 2009 12:04 PM

Re: co workers...

that crap would royally piss me off!! Yeah thats just so rude of them!

ourwedding9510 Posted: Dec 10, 2009 12:07 PM

Re: co workers...

Posted by FutureMrsLMS

that crap would royally piss me off!! Yeah thats just so rude of them!

ITA!!! I'm spitful though and when they ask me 'do you need to go out' would answer 'o! I'd love to come with you but I'm going to stay here thanks!'

es2189 Posted: Dec 10, 2009 12:08 PM

Re: co workers...

Posted by FutureMrsLMS

that crap would royally piss me off!! Yeah thats just so rude of them!

me too!!!! people $uck!!!

flibbertigibbet Posted: Dec 10, 2009 12:10 PM

Re: co workers...

ITA. people are jerks.

JayBee216 Posted: Dec 10, 2009 12:29 PM

Re: co workers...

UGH - co-workers are so annoying! I have def gotten burned in the past, so that's why I totally keep things at an arm's length at work - I don't gossip or hang out with any of them outside.

But - your situation is super annoying - I would just let it go, especially if you wouldn't go with them anyway. But I agree, it is nice to be asked sometimes!

StaceyWill Posted: Dec 10, 2009 12:31 PM

Re: co workers...

That is totally rude!!! They seem very immature!

miamimerger Posted: Dec 10, 2009 12:46 PM

Re: co workers...

ugh, that would make me SO mad.

MarjorieFrank Posted: Dec 10, 2009 12:52 PM

Re: co workers...

I would be really hurt if that was me. That used to happen to me at my old job. It is just so rude and immature. Those people need to grow up.

kimmaymb20 Posted: Dec 10, 2009 01:03 PM

Re: co workers...

i completely feel your pain. My good friend works in the office next door and she and the girl who works in my office go to lunch all the time. I used to go all the time to lunch with them but all of a sudden the girl who I hate in my office I guess wrote me off and now I never get asked. So I go an eat lunch in my car now thats pathetic. The other day those 2 and the guy in my office went to lunch and saw me walk to my car and never said a word. Oh well I know who my true friends are and thats all that matters.

NewYorker09 Posted: Dec 10, 2009 01:16 PM

Re: co workers...

Aww, that really stinks, I'm sorry you have to deal with that. I don't understand how people can be so flat out RUDE. I used to occasionally work with 2 girls who would bring in a little meal for 'them' to eat, when they knew I'd be there too by looking at the schedule.

It's too bad that they have that little class and it doesn't sound like they're people worth being 'friends' with anyway. Work is work and you don't always have to be friends with your coworkers.