Cold Feet

I wonder if he has!!

I've had second thoughts here & there because of thinking about the family I'm marrying into.

My FMIL makes Jane Fonda in 'Monster In Law' look like a faery godmother.

But I love him so much that I'd rather be with him & put up with her on ocassion rather than be without him

I answered yes.. cause I do get cold feet/ anxiety at least once a week!.. this doesn't concern me though considering I second quess everything I plan or do. It's def about the wedding itself not the marriage (except when he leaves his left over cereal in the sink)

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Posted by gporka23

I answered yes.. cause I do get cold feet/ anxiety at least once a week!.. this doesn't concern me though considering I second quess everything I plan or do. It's def about the wedding itself not the marriage (except when he leaves his left over cereal in the sink)

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HAHA I guess I'd take my comment back only when he makes tuna and doesn't clean out the sink well ewwwww

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Posted by Celeste617

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Posted by gporka23

I answered yes.. cause I do get cold feet/ anxiety at least once a week!.. this doesn't concern me though considering I second quess everything I plan or do. It's def about the wedding itself not the marriage (except when he leaves his left over cereal in the sink)

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HAHA I guess I'd take my comment back only when he makes tuna and doesn't clean out the sink well ewwwww

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I TOTALLY understand!!

Only b/c I have panic attacks and that is the first thing that comes to mind lol I am like 'I am not going to get married, I just want to be left alone'. Then I get over it. I only think that way whenever I start to have my monthly chemicaly imbalanced days lol I don't think it has anything to do with me really not wanting to marry him though.

Nope Never - Not with him..

Was engaged before called it off - Best thing I ever did - Make sure it is just cold feet and not serious doubts..

Sure I do. I think it's only natural. This is F-O-R-E-V-E-R! If I wasn't a little fearful I'd think there is something wrong with me. This is a huge step. I know I love him and I want to spend the rest of my life with him, but he comes with some baggage that has had me second guess my sanity at times

Marriage is work. You can't just runaway or break up if they piss you off. It's permanent like a tattoo That's scary in itself. Think there is nothing wrong with getting cold feet. It's just up to you how you react to it.

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Posted by amandah75

Sure I do. I think it's only natural. This is F-O-R-E-V-E-R! If I wasn't a little fearful I'd think there is something wrong with me. This is a huge step. I know I love him and I want to spend the rest of my life with him, but he comes with some baggage that has had me second guess my sanity at times

Marriage is work. You can't just runaway or break up if they piss you off. It's permanent like a tattoo That's scary in itself. Think there is nothing wrong with getting cold feet. It's just up to you how you react to it.

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Well said! I second that!

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Posted by Opera_Ghost

I've had second thoughts here & there because of thinking about the family I'm marrying into.

My FMIL makes Jane Fonda in 'Monster In Law' look like a faery godmother.

But I love him so much that I'd rather be with him & put up with her on ocassion rather than be without him

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aww! sorry you have a monster in law. my brother has been dating the same girl since dh and i started dating about 7years
everyone keeps asking me if they're going to get married already. i have no clue, but i think he has the same thing you have: a monster. i think its giving him pause.

thank god my mil is a doll. not to mention dh

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Posted by amandah75

Sure I do. I think it's only natural. This is F-O-R-E-V-E-R! If I wasn't a little fearful I'd think there is something wrong with me. This is a huge step. I know I love him and I want to spend the rest of my life with him, but he comes with some baggage that has had me second guess my sanity at times

Marriage is work. You can't just runaway or break up if they piss you off. It's permanent like a tattoo That's scary in itself. Think there is nothing wrong with getting cold feet. It's just up to you how you react to it.

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I absolutly agree with that! Its only natrual to feel scared worried and all that. I love my FH more then nething but sometimes I think about the What ifs..