Search Forums

Wedding Forums > Brides Helping Brides ™ > Common Sense, People!!
Common Sense, People!!
LIWeddings Posted: Nov 03, 2004 09:46 PM+
LIWeddings MEMBER SINCE: 3/01 TOTAL POSTS : 8034 WEDDING DATE: Jan 03, 2004
Posted: Nov 03, 2004 09:46 PM bride-minus.png

Re: Common Sense, People!!


Posted by DjPiLL

You damm right. For example.... you think I am going to look out for you? Nope... I am looking out for two people... my FW.. and myself. End of story.



Better look out for me too before I ban you for something!
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
september2004 Posted: Nov 03, 2004 09:47 PM+
september2004 MEMBER SINCE: 9/03 TOTAL POSTS : 3381 WEDDING DATE: Sep 18, 2004
Posted: Nov 03, 2004 09:47 PM bride-minus.png

Re: Common Sense, People!!


Posted by FutureMrsH

Hey, did anyone know that not only was he our ally...but we trained him too! And, how did we know Hussain had WMD's...hmmm...uh, we GAVE them to him!

wait, what WMD's, when were they found? did i miss something?

ETA: I give DJPill credit for saying what he feels. Sometimes you can't constantly worry about the world, you know...
if such selfishness perpetuates, when people are down and out they will look around and see that they are surrounded by others who also just don't care...not a world i personally want to live in...
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
september2004 Posted: Nov 03, 2004 09:48 PM+
september2004 MEMBER SINCE: 9/03 TOTAL POSTS : 3381 WEDDING DATE: Sep 18, 2004
Posted: Nov 03, 2004 09:48 PM bride-minus.png

Re: Common Sense, People!!


Posted by DjPiLL


Posted by september2004


Posted by Monkeybride

Wow that's pretty selfish.


tell me about it...




You damm right. For example.... you think I am going to look out for you? Nope... I am looking out for two people... my FW.. and myself. End of story.


she's so lucky to have found such a caring individual...
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
DjPiLL Posted: Nov 03, 2004 09:49 PM+
DjPiLL MEMBER SINCE: 4/04 TOTAL POSTS : 4198 WEDDING DATE: May 28, 2005
Posted: Nov 03, 2004 09:49 PM bride-minus.png

Re: Common Sense, People!!


Posted by september2004

she's so lucky to have found such a caring individual...




U damm right.
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
lilqtny Posted: Nov 03, 2004 09:50 PM+
lilqtny MEMBER SINCE: 1/04 TOTAL POSTS : 2669 WEDDING DATE: Oct 20, 2006
Posted: Nov 03, 2004 09:50 PM bride-minus.png

Re: Common Sense, People!!

Actually, while WMD may not have been found they did find heavy aresonals of weapons. Also there is now reason to believe that Russia was helping them remove the weapons before our arrival. Check out the military we pages they are very informative.

Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
Monkeybride Posted: Nov 03, 2004 10:38 PM+
Monkeybride MEMBER SINCE: 10/03 TOTAL POSTS : 1790 WEDDING DATE: Sep 17, 2004
Posted: Nov 03, 2004 10:38 PM bride-minus.png

Re: Common Sense, People!!


Posted by september2004


Posted by FutureMrsH

Hey, did anyone know that not only was he our ally...but we trained him too! And, how did we know Hussain had WMD's...hmmm...uh, we GAVE them to him!

wait, what WMD's, when were they found? did i miss something?

ETA: I give DJPill credit for saying what he feels. Sometimes you can't constantly worry about the world, you know...
if such selfishness perpetuates, when people are down and out they will look around and see that they are surrounded by others who also just don't care...not a world i personally want to live in...




Ditto.

I don't need anyone to look out for me. DH and I are the ones in those 200K tax brackets but we think about what's best for the world overall and in our opinion it's not GW. No matter how many tax breaks 'the so called rich', which we are not, get they still tax the cr@p out of us so some change tossed our way isn't going to help everyone else who is struggling.
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
marymoon Posted: Nov 04, 2004 12:26 AM+
marymoon MEMBER SINCE: 2/04 TOTAL POSTS : 12220 WEDDING DATE: Jun 19, 2010
Posted: Nov 04, 2004 12:26 AM bride-minus.png

Re: Common Sense, People!!

As usual, I totally disagree with DJPill. I totally look out for toher people. I'm not in a high tax bracket at all, but I'd rather even pay more taxes (even though I'd ahve to struggle more0 if it meant giving better healthcare and education to all of those children who ARE left behind. hat's just the wya I am. I gave up hgh paying summer jobs in college to volunteer helping to close the achievement gap of poor and minority high school students trying to get into college. I just feel like no one's free while thers are oppressed. So if I were in the higher tax bracket, I'm sure I'd want them to keep the tax cuts and improve the schools. Even if you are compeltely selfish, keeping people on their feet and giving peopel good education and hea;thcare among other things benefits society as a whole.
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
verdila Posted: Nov 04, 2004 09:52 AM+
verdila MEMBER SINCE: 9/01 TOTAL POSTS : 1042 WEDDING DATE: Sep 14, 2002
Posted: Nov 04, 2004 09:52 AM bride-minus.png

Re: Common Sense, People!!


Posted by marymoon

As usual, I totally disagree with DJPill. I totally look out for toher people. I'm not in a high tax bracket at all, but I'd rather even pay more taxes (even though I'd ahve to struggle more0 if it meant giving better healthcare and education to all of those children who ARE left behind. hat's just the wya I am. I gave up hgh paying summer jobs in college to volunteer helping to close the achievement gap of poor and minority high school students trying to get into college. I just feel like no one's free while thers are oppressed. So if I were in the higher tax bracket, I'm sure I'd want them to keep the tax cuts and improve the schools. Even if you are compeltely selfish, keeping people on their feet and giving peopel good education and hea;thcare among other things benefits society as a whole.



I think that is very noble that you help out with humanitarian causes, and are willing to be taxed more so that other people can benefit from your labor. But, not everyone feels that way....

There are other ways to help the world other than being taxed more, like donating your time and energy to specific causes. I just dont like the idea of govt taking more of MY hard earned money and spending it on social causes the way THEY want to. I think I pay enough taxes as it is with property taxes, income taxes and sales taxes. IMO, there comes a time when you have to say enough is enough. I don't think that is selfish - but more survivalist and individually family oriented.
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
ChristineC68 Posted: Nov 04, 2004 10:20 AM+
ChristineC68 MEMBER SINCE: 5/01 TOTAL POSTS : 12170 WEDDING DATE: Sep 21, 2002
Posted: Nov 04, 2004 10:20 AM bride-minus.png

Re: Common Sense, People!!


Posted by verdila


Posted by marymoon

As usual, I totally disagree with DJPill. I totally look out for toher people. I'm not in a high tax bracket at all, but I'd rather even pay more taxes (even though I'd ahve to struggle more0 if it meant giving better healthcare and education to all of those children who ARE left behind. hat's just the wya I am. I gave up hgh paying summer jobs in college to volunteer helping to close the achievement gap of poor and minority high school students trying to get into college. I just feel like no one's free while thers are oppressed. So if I were in the higher tax bracket, I'm sure I'd want them to keep the tax cuts and improve the schools. Even if you are compeltely selfish, keeping people on their feet and giving peopel good education and hea;thcare among other things benefits society as a whole.



I think that is very noble that you help out with humanitarian causes, and are willing to be taxed more so that other people can benefit from your labor. But, not everyone feels that way....

There are other ways to help the world other than being taxed more, like donating your time and energy to specific causes. I just dont like the idea of govt taking more of MY hard earned money and spending it on social causes the way THEY want to. I think I pay enough taxes as it is with property taxes, income taxes and sales taxes. IMO, there comes a time when you have to say enough is enough. I don't think that is selfish - but more survivalist and individually family oriented.



Verdila, I agree 100%...between all the taxes you mentioned I figure I pay about 45% of my hard earned income to taxes. I think that's more then enough...If the gov't cant get it right with almost half of my income, give me a shot with the balance I have left.
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
ambersmom Posted: Nov 04, 2004 12:48 PM+
ambersmom MEMBER SINCE: 7/04 TOTAL POSTS : 3847 WEDDING DATE: Nov 01, 2009
Posted: Nov 04, 2004 12:48 PM bride-minus.png

Re: Common Sense, People!!


Posted by lilqtny

DJ PIll is the only one who is willing to say exactly how he feels, believe me I am all for helping others, I do Habitat for Humanity I send care packages to a number of men overseas not just my man, I did the walk for breast cancer, I care about people

but when it comes down to it, my family is all that REALLY matters, sorry if you find that cruel and unusual, I think most people feel this way but are too 'politically correct' to say it and god forbid have someone on a forum think they are mean.



Here-here!! At least DJ is being honest and says how he feels regardless of the popular opinion. I feel like he does - I give to all sorts of causes and volunteer like crazy on all sorts of noble and worthwhile causes, but I've also personally seen the other side of the coin. I've seen our tax money being abused by people milking the sytem who are just out for a free ride. And I'm not about to give up another one of my hard earned, working two jobs for the dollar so that another government program can be funded to aid these individuals. I'm not about to take money out of my own kid's mouth or from funding for her education. I do what I can but enough is enough...
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
DjPiLL Posted: Nov 04, 2004 12:58 PM+
DjPiLL MEMBER SINCE: 4/04 TOTAL POSTS : 4198 WEDDING DATE: May 28, 2005
Posted: Nov 04, 2004 12:58 PM bride-minus.png

Re: Common Sense, People!!


Posted by marymoon

As usual, I totally disagree with DJPill. I totally look out for toher people. I'm not in a high tax bracket at all, but I'd rather even pay more taxes (even though I'd ahve to struggle more0 if it meant giving better healthcare and education to all of those children who ARE left behind.




I feel I help other people out enough. Its called paying Federal / State / and City taxes. Don't forget Medacaid. Don't forget Social Security (which is very likely i'll never see by the time I am 65).

I sometimes think the people that think I am selfish.. are the people that are just jealous that I got where I am at this point by doing it with good ole hard work and busting my a$$.

Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
marymoon Posted: Nov 04, 2004 01:30 PM+
marymoon MEMBER SINCE: 2/04 TOTAL POSTS : 12220 WEDDING DATE: Jun 19, 2010
Posted: Nov 04, 2004 01:30 PM bride-minus.png

Re: Common Sense, People!!

the pbem is that more and more tax $$ s going to this pointless war and to big business, and all of the programs that do help people are being cut, and that's totally wrong
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
eogara Posted: Nov 04, 2004 01:40 PM+
eogara MEMBER SINCE: 2/04 TOTAL POSTS : 6591 WEDDING DATE: Apr 03, 2005
Posted: Nov 04, 2004 01:40 PM bride-minus.png

Re: Common Sense, People!!


Posted by marymoon

As usual, I totally disagree with DJPill. I totally look out for toher people. I'm not in a high tax bracket at all, but I'd rather even pay more taxes (even though I'd ahve to struggle more0 if it meant giving better healthcare and education to all of those children who ARE left behind. hat's just the wya I am. I gave up hgh paying summer jobs in college to volunteer helping to close the achievement gap of poor and minority high school students trying to get into college. I just feel like no one's free while thers are oppressed. So if I were in the higher tax bracket, I'm sure I'd want them to keep the tax cuts and improve the schools. Even if you are compeltely selfish, keeping people on their feet and giving peopel good education and hea;thcare among other things benefits society as a whole.



So you have to keep yourself poor to look out for other people? I give a tremendous amount (both time and money) to various organizations that I believe are worthy of my time and effort. I also pay about 45% of my salary into taxes. You may decide that's not enough for you in your life but that doesn't have to be the same way for everyone. I don't need Big Government telling me how my money should be spent. That's a socialist, not capitalist, economy. We don't live in a country that was founded on those principles.
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
ChristineC68 Posted: Nov 04, 2004 01:59 PM+
ChristineC68 MEMBER SINCE: 5/01 TOTAL POSTS : 12170 WEDDING DATE: Sep 21, 2002
Posted: Nov 04, 2004 01:59 PM bride-minus.png

Re: Common Sense, People!!


Posted by marymoon

the pbem is that more and more tax $$ s going to this pointless war and to big business, and all of the programs that do help people are being cut, and that's totally wrong



What makes you think that giving the gov't more money will make things better for the programs you see fit? Wouldn't you rather have control over your own money and spend it according to your beliefs and passions?
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
marymoon Posted: Nov 04, 2004 02:04 PM+
marymoon MEMBER SINCE: 2/04 TOTAL POSTS : 12220 WEDDING DATE: Jun 19, 2010
Posted: Nov 04, 2004 02:04 PM bride-minus.png

Re: Common Sense, People!!

No, I don't think that's going to solve everything r that you do have to be poor. It's just that, we're all taking tax cuts and all of these programs and suffering as a result. it's not anyone's fault, no matter what tax bracket you're in. I just think it's complete mismanagement of funds and since we're in a war and there's a huge defecit, there shoudn't be all of these tax cuts. I was just saying it's selfish to say that since you're comfortable it doenst matter that schools and other programs are badly underfunded, but rich doens't mind me calling him selfihs
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
lanikai Posted: Nov 06, 2004 01:26 PM+
lanikai MEMBER SINCE: 3/04 TOTAL POSTS : 966 WEDDING DATE: Oct 09, 2005
Posted: Nov 06, 2004 01:26 PM bride-minus.png

Re: Common Sense, People!!


Posted by lilqtny

Actually, while WMD may not have been found they did find heavy aresonals of weapons. Also there is now reason to believe that Russia was helping them remove the weapons before our arrival. Check out the military we pages they are very informative.




I don't believe everything I read and see in this county.
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
lilqtny Posted: Nov 06, 2004 01:28 PM+
lilqtny MEMBER SINCE: 1/04 TOTAL POSTS : 2669 WEDDING DATE: Oct 20, 2006
Posted: Nov 06, 2004 01:28 PM bride-minus.png

Re: Common Sense, People!!

that is your perogative, but remember this is from the media, this is from the USMC, its not like channel 4 news or something, its a bit more reliable, oh and there are pictures of our military men in Iraq with the weapons


here is one link

oh and anotherone

some good things, my man and the USMC are doing
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
February05 Posted: Nov 06, 2004 01:52 PM+
February05 MEMBER SINCE: 8/04 TOTAL POSTS : 6573 WEDDING DATE: Feb 19, 2005
Posted: Nov 06, 2004 01:52 PM bride-minus.png

Re: Common Sense, People!!


Posted by ambersmom


Posted by lilqtny

DJ PIll is the only one who is willing to say exactly how he feels, believe me I am all for helping others, I do Habitat for Humanity I send care packages to a number of men overseas not just my man, I did the walk for breast cancer, I care about people

but when it comes down to it, my family is all that REALLY matters, sorry if you find that cruel and unusual, I think most people feel this way but are too 'politically correct' to say it and god forbid have someone on a forum think they are mean.



Here-here!! At least DJ is being honest and says how he feels regardless of the popular opinion. I feel like he does - I give to all sorts of causes and volunteer like crazy on all sorts of noble and worthwhile causes, but I've also personally seen the other side of the coin. I've seen our tax money being abused by people milking the sytem who are just out for a free ride. And I'm not about to give up another one of my hard earned, working two jobs for the dollar so that another government program can be funded to aid these individuals. I'm not about to take money out of my own kid's mouth or from funding for her education. I do what I can but enough is enough...



Ditto. Ditto and Ditto!
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
myasmom Posted: Nov 06, 2004 02:00 PM+
myasmom MEMBER SINCE: 1/04 TOTAL POSTS : 2599 WEDDING DATE: May 29, 2004
Posted: Nov 06, 2004 02:00 PM bride-minus.png

Re: Common Sense, People!!


I don't believe everything I read and see in this county.


So then that shuld help us all understand why people vote the way they do.. One person can choose to beleive what they read while another person chooses not to..and make their decisions for themselves and only themselves not others.
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
lilqtny Posted: Nov 06, 2004 02:39 PM+
lilqtny MEMBER SINCE: 1/04 TOTAL POSTS : 2669 WEDDING DATE: Oct 20, 2006
Posted: Nov 06, 2004 02:39 PM bride-minus.png

Re: Common Sense, People!!

and if you'd like to learn more check out www.usmc.mil and navigate around a little
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
No Posts Found With Your Match.
  • Chat With Local Long Island Brides
  • Long Island Bridal Expo
  • Chat With Local Brides
  • Ceremonies of the Heart-Ceremonies of the Heart
  • Adria Hotel-Adria Hotel & Conference Center
  • Balloons and Decorations-
 
Welcome New Vendors
X
X
X
X
Email to Friend
X
Submit a Report