completely torn...need your help :(

kate0211 Posted: Apr 19, 2007 02:23 PM

completely torn...need your help :(

hey ladies!!! i tried on a bunch of dresses at lillettes when i was home in NY for easter. I found two in particular that i LOVE LOVE LOVE, but the weird part is that they are two COMPLETELY different styles. im totally conflicted as to which to get - can i get your opinions??? sooo my wedding is at a country club...smaller venue...saturday night...not SUPER formal at all...i want it to be kind of like a country/gardeny/country club type thing. i duno...okay, so help!!!! thanks :)

PS - the maggie one would be all diamond white, and id lose the cap sleeves - incase that makes a difference. thanks girls!!!!

PPS - i COMPLETELY forgot to ask...do you think that i wont feel 'bridey' in the casablanca one?? when i think bride, i think more poofy and showy...what do you think??

TheFutureMrsM Posted: Apr 19, 2007 02:25 PM

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can you post a pic of the other dress?

Espo22 Posted: Apr 19, 2007 02:25 PM

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well i only see 1 pic and the dress is stunning-love it!!!

i would go with what looks best on you.

AMGBride2008 Posted: Apr 19, 2007 02:25 PM

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There's only one pictures, but I can tell you I loooooooooove the Casablanca dress! I had ripped it out of so many magazines. But when I went to try it on, the sample size wouldn't fit over my boobs so I said to hell with it, but I still really love that dress.

kellysue Posted: Apr 19, 2007 02:26 PM

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I love the first one!! It was the first dress I wripped out of a magazine.

kate0211 Posted: Apr 19, 2007 02:26 PM

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yeah, i got the second picture to load...sorry im a little slow. lol

jessica08bride Posted: Apr 19, 2007 02:27 PM

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i think based on your description, number one fits. but which one made you feel the most bridal? thats the one i would choose.

Espo22 Posted: Apr 19, 2007 02:28 PM

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theyre both beautiful but ill say go with what looks best on you and flatters your body best...of course we have to like the dress but sometimes we focus just on the dress and dont pay attention to what looks best on us.

kate0211 Posted: Apr 19, 2007 02:29 PM

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Posted by jessica08bride

i think based on your description, number one fits. but which one made you feel the most bridal? thats the one i would choose.

gahh!! i duno. i felt beautiful in them both, which is why im having such a terrible time deciding. it's seriously all i think about, ive become obsessed!!!it's sick. hahah

blu6385 Posted: Apr 19, 2007 02:43 PM

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i am sorry i am biased (sp) .. the second dress i think is my 'one' so i have to say i love the second but the first one is beautiful too ...

snowcutie82 Posted: Apr 19, 2007 03:02 PM

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i totally know what you're saying about having the dress feel 'bride-ish'....that's one of my problems too

the first one i think fits the theme u explained better, but the other one is more of the typical 'brides' dress...tough decision.

what did your mom, moh/bms think?

violiz Posted: Apr 19, 2007 03:11 PM

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Personally I like the second one, but that type is my style.

I say you should go with what makes you feel more confortable--and that makes you feel like a bride. Go back and try them on--try to dance in both of them, maybe you'll figure out which will be easier to move in at your wedding.

FutureMrsRice Posted: Apr 19, 2007 03:11 PM

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I think they are both very 'bride-y' and I love them both. However, I really love the second one. I think it is something with the bodice part that I just think it so flattering and pretty

kimNanthony Posted: Apr 19, 2007 03:25 PM

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I had the same problem when I was looking at dresses. I decided that since I couldn't decide which one i wanted neither of them were 'the one.' So I kept looking and a couple of weeks later I found my dresses with no second thoughts

B22 Posted: Apr 19, 2007 03:35 PM

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holy crap!!! The first one is the one that I am PROBABLY going to get!!!!

B22 Posted: Apr 19, 2007 03:36 PM

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I love the first one!! It was the first dress I wripped out of a magazine.

me too!!

nifheim Posted: Apr 19, 2007 03:51 PM

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I was conflicted for a while not because i loved two dresses it was i just was waiting for the feeling. I waited two weeks after trying even more gowns nad realized i kept thinking of this one dress. That and when i tried on var. styles of dresses i kept saying can you show me something like this 'casablanca' dress. When i kept doing that and with thinking about it all the time i knew it was the one.

I would sit on it for a while. try on my gowns and see what you keep thinking of or going back to.

KarinAmanda Posted: Apr 19, 2007 03:51 PM

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being your best friend, i outrank everyone

#2!! deff... i think you will be more comfortable in it, and i LOVE it - minus the cap sleeves. Kate its beautiful!