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mjay Posted: Feb 20, 2008 08:28 PM

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JUST A BIT CONCERNED AT THIS PIONT,, THIS WEDDING IS COSTING MORE THAN I HAD ANTICIPATED,, AND ITS LIKE OHHH MY GOD,, WHERE ARE WE GOING TO GET THE REST OF THE MONEY,, I FEEEL REALLY BUMMED OUT,, AND I ONLY HAVE 80 DAYS LEFT TO THE BIG DAY,, I KNOW IN THE END IT WILL WORK OUT,, I JUST WISH I DIDNT FEEL THIS WAY,, SAD,, DEPRESSED,, I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO TO TAKE MY MIND OFF OF IT,, JUST WANTED TO VENT LADIES..

MeaganAndJoeC Posted: Feb 20, 2008 08:30 PM

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it will all come together you are right just try to enjoy it as hard as that is sometimes

alissa5517 Posted: Feb 20, 2008 08:32 PM

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Try not to let the stress of the money take over and take away from the fun and joy of planning your day.

JeanetteandSteve Posted: Feb 20, 2008 08:35 PM

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i feel your pain!! but it will definitely all work out ok, and after your wedding you'll have amazing memories to look back on and it will all be worth it. wouldn't you rather splurge and always remember how amazing it was, than to look back w regret that you didn't do it the way you really wanted? this is the only wedding you're gonna have, so it's totally worth all the money and stress.

feel better...and remember, your day is going to be beautiful!!

mjay Posted: Feb 20, 2008 08:38 PM

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THANKS LADIES,, I KNOW I DID SPLURGE AND GOT EXTRA STUFF.. BUT THIS IS WHAT I WANT,, I WOULDNT KNOW HOW TO DO IT ANY OTHER WAY.. I JUST WISH I WASNT FEELING THE WAY I AM,,, I AM VERY HARD ON MYSELF..

cherish83 Posted: Feb 20, 2008 08:44 PM

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FH called me all worried about it today too. I had to reassure him that things will work out. I'm the one who handles the money so he trusts what I have to say about the matter. Yeah at times I freak out too, I think we all do at times throughout the planning. But It will all work out in the end.

mnd1202 Posted: Feb 20, 2008 09:30 PM

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o trust me u are not the only one feeling this way.....fh keeps joking to me that we are going to be in the bridal suite opening all the cards to pay for the damn thing lol that would be horrible but what are u gunna do...just enjoy it

bluekat16 Posted: Feb 20, 2008 10:47 PM

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I completely understand! I was just talking to the FH about it. Right now I'm a consultant and I'm hoping I get hired full-time....but it's that uncertainty that kills me. I keep kicking ymself wondering why I picked this moment in my life to take a risk....Ultimately I can only trust that everything will work out. Just keep telling yoursel that..plus you'll make some $$ back in gifts. You'll be fine...only 80 days to go..you are soo lucky. I fell this way and I'm only at 310 days to go...LOL.

FtrMrsV Posted: Feb 20, 2008 10:51 PM

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I know exactly how you feel. Im in the same situation. But try not to stress yourself out. Everything will come together in the end and work out. Just stay positive.

mrsdraskin2009 Posted: Feb 20, 2008 10:55 PM

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Ms Sawney Posted: Feb 21, 2008 10:56 AM

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I know exactly how you feel. Im in the same situation. But try not to stress yourself out. Everything will come together in the end and work out. Just stay positive thats what I am trying to do