I have been on this website for some time now and I feel that I have been holding back. I love the advice and ideas that I get on this site but have been afraid to share much about my wedding because it is 'untraditional' and some people may not agree with it. But, I feel that I must get it out. I am a lesbian and I am having a commitment ceremony. But at the same time it is exactly like a 'traditional' wedding in every sense but that I am marrying a girl not a guy. I am very 'girlie' and have always dreamed of the fairytale wedding. Luckily I have come into contact with numerous vendors that have been open and accepting of my situation. I think that I would have been devastated if I could not have the wedding of my dreams. I hope that I am not offending anyone and that I will still be a welcome member on the boards, but I just felt that I was almost lying when I came on here and wanted to be truthful! Thanks!! And best wishes to you all and good luck with your weddings. From what I have seen, everyone is going to have the day every little girl dreams of!
ssdbk
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Congrats!!! We all want to plan weddings that reflect who we are. There's no reason for you to miss out on your childhood dreams, right? Please stick around. We have some, open minded people who are willing to entertain lots of ideas. Please don't be offended if anyone has questions that sound misinformed. There's so much that I would love to ask, simply because I don't want to make assumptions about how you might handle things.
kitty1224
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Congrats girl, do not hold back, who care guy or girl, What ever makes you happy, Congrats
CaseyVM214
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Congrats!!! and WELCOME.
xcalystax
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Welcome and congrats!
Eleuses
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Yay!! Another Giorgio's girl....not too long after my reception there. So far everyone has been great there!!! Good luck!
pixiechickie
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Half of my bridal party are lesbians! Who cares???? You should have never felt like you werent welcomed or that you couldnt share. A wedding is a wedding nomatter whos getting married. The best of luck...hope to see you on here still. It would be silly to go away.
Hallowedding
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Congratulations! I think it's wonderful that you are fulfilling your childhood dream and are planning a beautiful wedding! I wish you and your wife-to-be many years of love and happiness
ChrisnAmy
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I hope that no one makes you feel uncomfortable on here! That would be horrible! Your a bride! and you deserve to be treated like a bride. I hope you have your dream wedding!
Best Wishes!
GabrielleandJohn
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Welcome congratulations!
Suzannebride
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I'm glad you said something so you don't have to worrying about hiding something so important to you. Best of luck with the planning...it's a crazy time!
