Re: Consensus on BP members invited w/guests for RD?
nope, unless they are married or in a serious relationship. gotta cut costs somewhere, lol
Windy
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I actually looked up some RD articles and how-to stuff and I read that you are supposed to invite bp with their significant others. I dont think that you have to let them bring random guests.
StellaStar13
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yup all my BP members are married so I cant NOT invite their significant others since we are all friends.
Lu2700
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only the one's in relationships
FutureMrsKuehne
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we invited ours w/guests....Except stunad FH doesnt mention that one of his GM is now LIVING with some chick, and all along i was under the impression he was single....as per FH, so we invited him w/o a guest to the RD!!!!
so now i feel like an @$$!!!!
Lsorrent
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If they're married or in a relationship, yes they're being invited with a guest. If their wedding invite is simply 'and guest,' no they're not.
jackieee
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I am, but most of them are married or in serious relationships..There are like 3 that aren't, and I think we will tell them to bring someone if they want. We are most likely having a BBQ type thing at my parents' house.
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hmmm I might not be following proper ettiquet here but we are not unless they are married. I don't feel right asking someone to leave their husband or wife home. I should add we only have 2 members of our BP who are married and the other is not in our wedding. One is an OOT'er, and I would never expect her to hang out in a hotel by herself and the other will be married a few weeks before us.
The way I see it I go places without my FH all the time. I don't think it's a big deal. We are also not having a big fancy dinner though. I am hoping it only lasts 3 hours or so. Maybe if we were I would feel differently.
Plus he would be bored sitting through a rehersal of a wedding I was in, and to take 2 cars to travel to a dinner is silly. JMHO
gravemiss
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I'm only inviting them with a guest if they are married, dating someone, in a serious relationship.
marinai7
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Yes, we invited all of ours with guests.
Kiki1103
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Yes, we did all of ours with guests to the RD and wedding.
AdriandSteve
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Depends. If they are married, engaged, seriously dating then yes.
Otherwise now.
JAAMS
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We're doing it only if they are dating someone.
Sandradv121
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We are b/c they all are pretty much married or involved.
Lady12
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I am the odd woman out on here because I am so not following etiquette! I only invited the bridal party to the RD. No guests!
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Posted by AngnShaun
I only have 1 single BP member and i doubt he would bring anyone but we are inviting him with a guest...
Everyone is invited with their significant other...
same thing for me!
Noelsgirl
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hell no, only if they are in a serious relationship!!
FutureMrsSoltan
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I am inviting the ones who are invited to the wedding with a guest to the rd with a guest.
