Could really use some advice girls..venting

Original post by melcc83

Jun 15, 2009 09:42 AM

Ok girls I could really use your help on this one. Im getting married in almost 3 months and lately Ive been feeling really aggrevated with everything. Like many of you im sure, from the beggining of our engagement we have dealt with peoplenegetive oponions, about what we should do and how we should do it, and have been brushing it off, and trying to ignore it. But lately I think I just cant take it anymore, someone will say something, and I just let it get to me so much I freak. I guess its just been building and it could be something small that someone says and I just get aggrevated, Ive also been crying at the drop of a hat, I feel like a psycho. I talked to FH about and hes just like relax. This is me : how can I fking relax when I have a millian things to do and no time to rest' LOL. I know i should just let it go and not let these things or people get to me this way, but when I have a millian things to do and am stessed as it is i dont know how to brush it off anymore Has this been happening to anyone else or do I need to check myself into the loony bin???

dfw343 Posted: Jun 15, 2009 12:55 PM

Re: Could really use some advice girls..venting

Maybe because I am the age of the crypt keeper but...I let what people say roll off my back.
Listen and say OK..nod...then do what you want.
IT'S YOUR DAY!!!!!!!!!

gina409 Posted: Jun 15, 2009 01:38 PM

Re: Could really use some advice girls..venting

im so sorry u r stressed

its all from the planning..my best advice is to take a few days and do NOTHING wedding related..go back to normal everyday life

and when u go back to planning if u feel urself getting overwhelmed..stop for a few..have a glass of wine..go outside..then resume when u feel better

hope this helps and feel better

melcc83 Posted: Jun 15, 2009 01:52 PM

Re: Could really use some advice girls..venting

Posted by gina409

im so sorry u r stressed

its all from the planning..my best advice is to take a few days and do NOTHING wedding related..go back to normal everyday life

and when u go back to planning if u feel urself getting overwhelmed..stop for a few..have a glass of wine..go outside..then resume when u feel better

hope this helps and feel better

LOL can def use a glass of wine, maybe I should go back to my pot smoking days so that way nothinh will bother me LOL j/k

Summertimegal424 Posted: Jun 15, 2009 04:37 PM

Re: Could really use some advice girls..venting

i think its soo normal i would say about at the 3 month mark i was a looney bin ....i thought i had SOOO much to do..and now with just 17 days left to go, i only have a lil left and i am sooooo relaxed and calm ..and just want the day to come and go..cause i am sooo excited.

make lists...lots and lots of them. cross things off as you go, seeing the line along it, will put a smile on your face knowing u got something done!

good luck and relax u still go time

bride2binli Posted: Jun 15, 2009 04:40 PM

Re: Could really use some advice girls..venting

um yea please Im getting married a week before you and keep feeling like I am missing something crucial that will turn up last minute. Honestly I just want the day to be here and all the annoying crap to go away! Its ok though, ride it out girl dont get stressed!