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Steph62406
Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:28 PM+

Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:28 PM
Crash
Ok so my FI is a HUGE Dave Matthews fan and wants the song Crash to be our first dance! !! I'm thinking that it's not really a first dance song. What's your thoughts???
LaurenluvsTJ
Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:32 PM+

Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:32 PM
Re: Crash
I don't know the lyrics that well.. Do you have them?
gNi1125
Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:33 PM+

Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:33 PM
Re: Crash
I really like that song...might be difficult to dance to. But if it means a lot to FH then maybe you can make it work?
Jen2999
Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:33 PM+

Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:33 PM
Re: Crash
I love DMBbut I dunno about that song for 1st dance, there are other sthatd be good.
Steph62406
Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:45 PM+

Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:45 PM
Re: Crash
I know there's some lyrics in that song that if my father really sat down a listen to them I think he would fall off his chair....LoL. FI wants to send the cd to my dad.
sarahthegreat
Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:48 PM+

Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:48 PM
Re: Crash
umm, not to put down the man, but isn't that song a little stalker-esque? don't get me wrong, i'm not opposed to non-traditional 1st dance songs - ours is a fast song by a band that no one has ever heard of. anyway, my fh's cousin and his wife had their first dance to 'lover lay down' which i found intersting. its all about your ownn personal style. if you want it go, for it.
Steph62406
Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:49 PM+

Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:49 PM
Re: Crash
any other Dave songs that you think would be good for a first dance?
Steph62406
Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:51 PM+

Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:51 PM
Re: Crash
I think crash is a little out there (but so is FI) LOL. I really need to change his mind on this one
sarahthegreat
Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:52 PM+

Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:52 PM
Re: Crash
Posted by Steph62406
any other Dave songs that you think would be good for a first dance?
i'm not a huge fan, but what about Everyday? that would be different. does it HAVE to be a dave matthews song?
Steph62406
Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:56 PM+

Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:56 PM
Re: Crash
Posted by smm2675
Posted by Steph62406
any other Dave songs that you think would be good for a first dance?
i'm not a huge fan, but what about Everyday? that would be different. does it HAVE to be a dave matthews song?
I'd rather not have a dave Matthews song but this is really the only thing he's saying he wants with this whole wedding. But I don't think I can do that song 'Hike up your skirt and show your world to me' COME ON whats he thinking!!! ! !
sarahthegreat
Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:57 PM+

Posted: Feb 23, 2005 09:57 PM
Re: Crash
Posted by Steph62406
Posted by smm2675
Posted by Steph62406
any other Dave songs that you think would be good for a first dance?
i'm not a huge fan, but what about Everyday? that would be different. does it HAVE to be a dave matthews song?
I'd rather not have a dave Matthews song but this is really the only thing he's saying he wants with this whole wedding. But I don't think I can do that song 'Hike up your skirt and show your world to me' COME ON whats he thinking!!! ! !
i know, that line stands out the most. you can always have it as your last dance played. by then your guests won't know whether they are coming or going so they won't even notice
Steph62406
Posted: Feb 23, 2005 10:01 PM+

Posted: Feb 23, 2005 10:01 PM
Re: Crash
[i know, that line stands out the most. you can always have it as your last dance played. by then your guests won't know whether they are coming or going so they won't even notice
That's a good idea, I'll have to see what he says... He had mentioned lover lay down. I'll have to listen to it and see if it's a little better then Crash. Thanks.
sarahthegreat
Posted: Feb 23, 2005 10:02 PM+

Posted: Feb 23, 2005 10:02 PM
Re: Crash
Posted by Steph62406
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i know, that line stands out the most. you can always have it as your last dance played. by then your guests won't know whether they are coming or going so they won't even notice
That's a good idea, I'll have to see what he says... He had mentioned lover lay down. I'll have to listen to it and see if it's a little better then Crash. Thanks.
good luck!
Jen2999
Posted: Feb 23, 2005 10:03 PM+

Posted: Feb 23, 2005 10:03 PM
Re: Crash
hmm there is such a good one on their latest cd but i cant remember the name of it.
cmastro25
Posted: Feb 23, 2005 10:04 PM+

Posted: Feb 23, 2005 10:04 PM
Re: Crash
All I have to say is 'Hike up your skirt a little more and show your world to me.' I don't think that's what you want your parents to hear when you're dancing with your new husband.
Steph62406
Posted: Feb 23, 2005 10:06 PM+

Posted: Feb 23, 2005 10:06 PM
Re: Crash
Posted by cmastro25
All I have to say is 'Hike up your skirt a little more and show your world to me.' I don't think that's what you want your parents to hear when you're dancing with your new husband.![]()
lol YEAH i CAN SEE IT KNOW MY MOTHERS FACE TURNING BRIGHT RED
Jen2999
Posted: Feb 23, 2005 10:08 PM+

Posted: Feb 23, 2005 10:08 PM
Re: Crash
hmm some optionsangel
I call you up
You pick up
You call my bluff
On the card of love
You hold too close
Your hands to your chest
I can’t read your eyes
But I confess
It’s lonely far from you, oh
Even when you’re right by me
It’s only why I wait for you
To take my hand
Why do I beg like a child for your candy?
Why do I come after you like I do, I love you?
Wherever you are
I swear
You’ll be my angel
You
I play my cards the best I can
But I lose my luck when you’re not here
My darling heart
Won’t you please give in?
I may be strong
But I want you back again
When you’re not here it’s hard to pretend
It’s all alright again
When you’re not here love it’s hard to pretend
It’s all alright but still
Why do I beg like a child for your candy?
Why do I run after you like I do, I love you?
Whatever you are
I swear
You be my angel, you
Watch the deck
Count your cards
Makes no sense
That I’m always losing
When you’re gone
Why do I beg like a child for your candy?
Why do I come after you like I do, I love you
Whatever you are
I swear
You’ll be my angel, you
When you’re gone
lover lay down
Spring sweet rhythm dance in my head
Slip into my lover’s hands
Kiss me won’t you kiss me now
And sleep I would inside your mouth
Don’t be us too shy
Knowing it’s no big surprise
That I will wait for you
I will wait for no one but you
Oh please lover lay down
Spend this time with me
Together share this smile
Lover lay down
Spend this time with me
Walk with me, walk with you
Hold my hands your hands
So much we have dreamed
And you were so much younger
Hard to explain that we are stronger
A million reasons life to deny
Let’s toss them away
See you and me we
Lay down look see
She and he
By my lover’s side
Together share this smile
Lover lay down
Oh please oh please
Please lover lay down
Oh please lover lay down
And you weep lover lay down
Cause it’s over lover lay down
Say love, say love, say love, say love, say love
Could I love you
Could you love me
Darling it’s all the same
’til we dance away
Chasing me all around
Leading me all around
Leading me all around in circles
Say.......
Steph62406
Posted: Feb 23, 2005 10:13 PM+

Posted: Feb 23, 2005 10:13 PM
Re: Crash
Posted by Jen2999
hmm some options
OH NELLY THAT'S A LOT TO PICK FROM. THANKS
jennymac
Posted: Feb 23, 2005 10:37 PM+

Posted: Feb 23, 2005 10:37 PM
Re: Crash
it would be great for the garter thing, but the lyrics are a little risque for a first dance
CC59
Posted: Feb 23, 2005 11:45 PM+

Posted: Feb 23, 2005 11:45 PM
Re: Crash
How about 'I'll back you up'...I LOVE that song! I think its an oldie from Remember Two Things. One of the lines go ...'In your eye I see all the greatest few...do what you will always walk where you like your steps..do what you please I'll back you up...I definitely want that one at our wedding
ok I found the lyrics for you here ya go!
Dave Matthews Band - I'll Back You Up Lyrics
I remember thinking
I'll go on forever only knowing
I'll see you again
But I know the touch of you is hard to remember
But like that touch I've known no other
And for sure we have danced
In the risk of each other
Would you like to dance
around the world with me
I'll be falling all about my own thing
And I know you're the heaviest weight,
When you're not here that's hung
around my head
And your lips burn wild
Thrown from the face of a child
And in your eyes
The seeing of the greatest few
Do what you will, always
walk where you like, your steps
Do as you please, I'll back you up
I remember thinking
Sometimes we walk
Sometimes we run away
But I know
No matter how fast we are running
Some how we keep
Some how we keep up with each other
I'll be falling all about my own thing
And I know you're the heaviest weight
When you're not here that's hung
around my head
And your lips burn wild
Thrown from the face of a child
And in your eyes
The seeing of the greatest few
Do what you will, always
walk where you like, your steps
Do as you please, I'll back you up
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