crazy

fitchc Posted: Jun 26, 2008 10:38 PM

crazy

I need advice ladies....

BarbieGrl10 Posted: Jun 26, 2008 11:05 PM

Re: my sis in law is a *****! HELP!

DId you talk to your FH about this?
I'm sorry your going through this!!!

JodyLC Posted: Jun 26, 2008 11:12 PM

Re: my sis in law is a *****! HELP!

It's almost like she wants to be the center of attention.. I am SOOO sorry you have to deal with this, this should be your happy time not being miserable.. what does FH say about it? And why is she in charge of his bachelor party? Isn't that for the Best man and groomsman to do? Personally I would tell you do what you want with the party I trust FH... That will give her less ammo there...

I wish the best for you!!!

KimiDanny1010 Posted: Jun 27, 2008 01:19 AM

Re: my sis in law is a *****! HELP!

can u say Jealous !!!!

PegaLega Posted: Jun 27, 2008 01:22 AM

Re: my sis in law is a *****! HELP!

o boy! I would talk to your FH about the way she makes you feel, tell him its unexceptable no matter what the reasoning behind it is. If he doesnt say anything you should, stand up for yourself and tell her straight up its not right and to get over herself b/c obviously she has some issues

Deeglasser Posted: Jun 27, 2008 01:25 AM

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Why is she in charge of your FH's bachelor party? t sounds like she is a complete control freak and obviously very self-absorbed. does your FH get along well with her? I would def keep communication open between you and your FH about this-- you don't want to freak out on him for something small when this is the main issue. honestly, i think he needs to stick up for you in this situation, and put his sister in her place!

Lily092207 Posted: Jun 27, 2008 08:43 PM

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Posted by Deeglasser

Why is she in charge of your FH's bachelor party? t sounds like she is a complete control freak and obviously very self-absorbed. does your FH get along well with her? I would def keep communication open between you and your FH about this-- you don't want to freak out on him for something small when this is the main issue. honestly, i think he needs to stick up for you in this situation, and put his sister in her place!

WOW..that is so wrong..Soooo Sorry you are going through this at this time..esp when you're in the process of planning your special big day. I mean gosh, talk about center of attention here. I totally agree with Dee, your FH has to stick up for you and say something before it escalates to even more trouble. It sure seems like, she is jealous and can't accept it so, she got to go and try to ruin you...JMO

Dani777 Posted: Jun 27, 2008 09:51 PM

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Wow.. I am sooo sorry for you. I wish there was something I could do. Did you try talking to your FH about this? Or, even if that doesnt work maybe his parents..? (Only if you have a close bond with them) I know that if my FH sis was like that I would talk to him then take it the next step if need be. I hope everythign works out.

littlepixie12 Posted: Jun 27, 2008 10:22 PM

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Sounds like she did it on purpose because she wanted to be the center of attention not you. You should talk with your FH about it. what does he say?

bride2be8 Posted: Jun 28, 2008 01:02 AM

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I sympathize with you lately minen has been a Bi@tch too!

FutureMrsCarrieri Posted: Jun 28, 2008 09:11 AM

Re: my sis in law is a *****! HELP!

She does it because she knows you will just sit there and take it. I can understand not wanting to cause any problems with her or start a fight before your wedding but you have to speak up to FH about it and WALK AWAY when she starts her ****. If she follows you then you have no choice than to confront her. You have to make her respect you. Don't let her get the upper hand by letting her see you cry. You are not some worthless piece of garbage to be abused! Don't put up with it now or you will have this problem for many many years to come.

Good luck

myprinn5667 Posted: Jun 28, 2008 10:21 PM

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I would talk to FH and tell him how you feel. He should be on your side you are marrying him and into the family.

If she continues to act that way I would call her out on it and tell her how you feel and it's bothering you. Maybe she will see things a different way after you let her know how you are feeling.

I hope it works out.......