Crazy Ex Wives?

Believe it or not, my fiancés ex wife has tracked down our locations -
and to avoid possible confrontations we have had to change our church - and catering hall.



soo upsetting - thank god this happend before invitations went out.

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Posted by AeroJenn

that s u c k s. But if the Millderage Inn is your new location, I'd take it off your profile now. You never know who comes on this website.

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ditto---i would erase anything in your profile that shows your information

i would make sure that you have a 'security word' or 'code' with all vendors--and let them know that NO changes are to be made to your plans or contracts without that word....it seems drastic but if your FH's ex-wife is nuts--you just never know.

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Posted by AeroJenn

that s u c k s. But if the Millderage Inn is your new location, I'd take it off your profile now. You never know who comes on this website.

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Change the date in your profile as well, don't give out information about your vendors on this site.

Consider a restraining order against her if she has threatened you or your FH.

I'm sorry - that's the last thing you should have to worry about on your special day!

make sure you don't post any personal info here, and you may want to consider: 1. bringing a pic of the ex to the church and RH to show them so that she can be escorted out if she shows up, 2. establishing a password with your vendors in case she tries to call and cancel anything, and 3. hiring a security person!

good luck

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Posted by Gromette24

Believe it or not, my fiancés ex wife has tracked down our locations -
and to avoid possible confrontations we have had to change our church - and catering hall.



soo upsetting - thank god this happend before invitations went out.

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would she actually DO SOMETHING?

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Posted by cookiemonster

I'm sorry - that's the last thing you should have to worry about on your special day!

make sure you don't post any personal info here, and you may want to consider: 1. bringing a pic of the ex to the church and RH to show them so that she can be escorted out if she shows up, 2. establishing a password with your vendors in case she tries to call and cancel anything, and 3. hiring a security person!

good luck

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I agree you can't take any chances when it comes to your day.

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Posted by AeroJenn

that s u c k s. But if the Millderage Inn is your new location, I'd take it off your profile now. You never know who comes on this website.

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Good call!! That's horrible, thank goodness you found out though and was able to do something about it!

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Posted by MJDoc12

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Posted by AeroJenn

that s u c k s. But if the Millderage Inn is your new location, I'd take it off your profile now. You never know who comes on this website.

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ditto---i would erase anything in your profile that shows your information

i would make sure that you have a 'security word' or 'code' with all vendors--and let them know that NO changes are to be made to your plans or contracts without that word....it seems drastic but if your FH's ex-wife is nuts--you just never know.

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How do you know its from this website? Ask your FH if any of his family has spoke to her or given her the information! Hey you never know

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Posted by AttarahJ

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Posted by MJDoc12

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Posted by AeroJenn

that s u c k s. But if the Millderage Inn is your new location, I'd take it off your profile now. You never know who comes on this website.

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ditto---i would erase anything in your profile that shows your information

i would make sure that you have a 'security word' or 'code' with all vendors--and let them know that NO changes are to be made to your plans or contracts without that word....it seems drastic but if your FH's ex-wife is nuts--you just never know.

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How do you know its from this website? Ask your FH if any of his family has spoke to her or given her the information! Hey you never know

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even its not from this site--i think its a good idea not to put specifics in your profile if you have someone that is a bit unstable stalking you.

i just know from experience, that someone found my info on this site and tried to mess me up with my hall!

wow thats crazy! My Fh has a psycho ex wife also....we plan on having a few BIG dudes at the RH....just in case.....

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Posted by MJDoc12

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Posted by AttarahJ

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Posted by MJDoc12

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Posted by AeroJenn

that s u c k s. But if the Millderage Inn is your new location, I'd take it off your profile now. You never know who comes on this website.

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ditto---i would erase anything in your profile that shows your information

i would make sure that you have a 'security word' or 'code' with all vendors--and let them know that NO changes are to be made to your plans or contracts without that word....it seems drastic but if your FH's ex-wife is nuts--you just never know.

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How do you know its from this website? Ask your FH if any of his family has spoke to her or given her the information! Hey you never know

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even its not from this site--i think its a good idea not to put specifics in your profile if you have someone that is a bit unstable stalking you.

i just know from experience, that someone found my info on this site and tried to mess me up with my hall!

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exactly. It doesnt matter where she got the info the FIRST time. The internet and everything on it (including your posts and your profile) is all PUBLIC information. If she wanted to (or anyone for that matter) she could easily find the new location just by doing a google search -- this website and all your posts will come up. Better to err on the side of caution by not putting the information out there until after the wedidng.