Dad has passed away. My 3/27 wedding is being postponed. Feeling very down.

Original post by StepherG

Mar 22, 2004 11:12 AM

My father's cancer spread the last week of February and he passed away on March 11. I can't even express what I am going through right now. He was supposed to walk me down the aisle on Saturday. I feel broken. I'm not even sure why I'm writing this, but somehow I feel that I needed to tell you all since you've been so kind to me.

We are trying to pick up the pieces. My FH has taken control of everything for the wedding. He has rescheduled it to August 1st for us. Our vendors have been so wonderful. They applied all deposits to our new wedding date. I'm scared for that day though...how will I ever get down the aisle without my dad?

Hope all of the other 3/27 brides have a beautiful day. I'll be thinking of you.

Stephanie

WeddingsRock Posted: Mar 22, 2004 09:34 PM

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Oh Stephanie, I feel your pain....My dad passed away 5 months before my wedding. I wanted him to be here so badly....We almost postponed but decided against it and went ahead with our date. I think it is wise that you postponed. Your family will be in my thoughts this week!

alixgirl Posted: Mar 22, 2004 09:34 PM

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I am so sorry for your loss. If you ever need anyone to talk to please feel free to email me. My father also passed away from cancer. I know that this is a very painful time. You are in my prayers.

jayidee Posted: Mar 22, 2004 09:48 PM

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I'm so sorry. You and your family are in my prayers.

MayDay16 Posted: Mar 22, 2004 10:02 PM

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I am so sorry....

I wish I could hug you and tell you its going to be OK.

My prayers are with you and your family.

christy Posted: Mar 22, 2004 10:05 PM

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peeweesgirl Posted: Mar 22, 2004 10:07 PM

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My thoughts and prayers are with you.

juju Posted: Mar 22, 2004 10:15 PM

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Sweetie, I am so sorry!!! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

princess99 Posted: Mar 22, 2004 10:47 PM

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I am so sorry for what u are going thru. I have lost my mom and dad, and my heart goes out to u. Even though it is so hard right now it will get better. I am having my sister and brother in law walk me down the aisle. How about youre mom walking u down?. Do not worry about this now, try to take care of yourself, feel free to fm mail me if u need to talk. My deepest condolences to u and your family.

Smiley Posted: Mar 22, 2004 10:48 PM

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Very sorry for your loss.

butterfly20 Posted: Mar 22, 2004 10:55 PM

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leeleelee Posted: Mar 22, 2004 10:59 PM

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I'm so very sorry for your loss...

peabody Posted: Mar 22, 2004 11:01 PM

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I am so sorry .... Take time for yourself and know we are all thinking of you.

bridejune04 Posted: Mar 22, 2004 11:09 PM

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I'm so sorry for your loss.

lvain90 Posted: Mar 22, 2004 11:34 PM

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i'm so sorry for your lost. I could only imagine what you are feeling. My fiance and i trying to get thru our own lost also. We lost my fiance' father, March 9. We just had our enagement Party week and half before he past away. I'm trying to kept his spirit up. I'm also telling him to think of the good times he had with this dad. I'm also happy your fiance' also is helping you out with the rescheduling. And the vendors you are using was really nice to reschedule and help you out. Everything will be ok and you will get thru this ok.

luckylucy Posted: Mar 22, 2004 11:41 PM

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I am so sorry for your loss.

oakslady Posted: Mar 23, 2004 01:03 AM

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stephanie - i am so sorry to hear about your dad - there isnt anything that can be said right now to express the feelings you must be holding within - but please hon dont forget that your dad is with you in spirit even if he isnt there to hold your arm he will be walking you down the aisle.
if you need anything - even just to cry - please feel free i am here to listen -

nancyruo Posted: Mar 23, 2004 08:17 AM

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God bless your family, You will make it down the aisle because that is what your dad would want.

2bewedin04 Posted: Mar 23, 2004 08:20 AM

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Condolences and hugs to you. Your wedding day will be a very special day, filled with people who have supported you through this. I'm sorry to hear ...

DecBride04 Posted: Mar 23, 2004 08:41 AM

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I am so sorry to hear about your loss. That is just heartbreaking. You take this time to be with your family and heal. God is with you.

laudipop Posted: Mar 23, 2004 11:30 AM

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I'm so sorry.

My father died very suddenly in November, so I understand how you feel about the wedding. You'll get through it (we both will!) and maybe there will be tears, but that's okay. Everyone will share your emotions and be there for you, and your dad will be there in spirit.