Dealing with annoying family members..
Long story short...
I am planning the wedding of my fiancé and I and being that he comes from a relatively big Italian/Irish family, I wanted to include the individuals who I felt would want to be involved. Now my FI family has always been or seemed indifferent toward me.. Which, is something that is hard to swallow when you are marrying into such a big family. (I myself have 8 immediate family members) Anyway, being that I have finally started to sort the details about the wedding I wanted to include my FI niece and nephew. One of FI's sisters doesn't like me.. And I understand why she doesn't like me.. To spare you all the details.. Her partner (which is a man who she has been living with for close to 15+ years inappropriately contacted me via gchat.. He said very explicit sexual things to me and I showed my FI...somehow in the mix of all that mess I was blamed for him seeking me out... ). I understand she is upset and everything but I don't have anything against her bc I never did anything. However, my FI wanted her son in our wedding party.. She doesn't feel comfortable including him. Which, is fine..
I can go into details about this story but am I wrong for being mad? Or not even wanting her son in my wedding to begin with.... It's so upsetting and stressful.. Any advice would be appreciated..
I am planning the wedding of my fiancé and I and being that he comes from a relatively big Italian/Irish family, I wanted to include the individuals who I felt would want to be involved. Now my FI family has always been or seemed indifferent toward me.. Which, is something that is hard to swallow when you are marrying into such a big family. (I myself have 8 immediate family members) Anyway, being that I have finally started to sort the details about the wedding I wanted to include my FI niece and nephew. One of FI's sisters doesn't like me.. And I understand why she doesn't like me.. To spare you all the details.. Her partner (which is a man who she has been living with for close to 15+ years inappropriately contacted me via gchat.. He said very explicit sexual things to me and I showed my FI...somehow in the mix of all that mess I was blamed for him seeking me out... ). I understand she is upset and everything but I don't have anything against her bc I never did anything. However, my FI wanted her son in our wedding party.. She doesn't feel comfortable including him. Which, is fine..
I can go into details about this story but am I wrong for being mad? Or not even wanting her son in my wedding to begin with.... It's so upsetting and stressful.. Any advice would be appreciated..
