Dear 2012 Brides...

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Posted by sjr385

Seriously?!

(Don't worry, I live on the other side of the Atlantic. I'm not going to take your precious spot)

But... seriously?! Is that really necessary?

Every time this convo starts, I chime in and say 'Please don't hate the 2012 girls! Some of us need planning ideas before we've, well, planned everything... since that's the real point of TWOTY. Some of us won't be able to go next year. Some of us aren't on LI very often or have crazy work schedules.' Some of us have been around for longer than some of you. And most of us can put together coherent sentences.

Then Amy chimes in and says 'Don't worry, we don't mean you.'

Except many of you do. And it's hostile, even if you guys are -ing and being 'polite'.

Please, just stop hating on the 2012 (and 2013) girls. It's not necessary, it's not friendly, and it's not going to make CS post the TWOTY info any faster.

Love,
a 2012 bride

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Awww Sarah, if I could bring someone, I'd bring u

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Posted by JennylovesStephen

And there is that unnecessary drama

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Posted by sjr385

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Posted by bebita0830

Awww Sarah, if I could bring someone, I'd bring u

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Awww thanks

No drama. That's why I ended with love. I just want some of that 2011 love to extend beyond your board to ours.

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I hate drama LOL Love all around

I agree. There are some really active brides on 2012 and 2013 and i def think they deserve to go. More active than some 2011 brides. And some have been on a long time. Like sjr theyre planning ahead longer bc theyre in school, abroad or in the military.

But i understand these 2011 brides have become really close and i think they just want the opportunity to hang at the event together.

Ive noticed that some of the 2010 brides went to both and i wonder if they had the same issue.

I say if youre an active person on here and you support the site you should be able to go. And i think 231 was too low an amount to be included.

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Posted by JennylovesStephen

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Posted by sjr385

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Posted by bebita0830

Awww Sarah, if I could bring someone, I'd bring u

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Awww thanks

No drama. That's why I ended with love. I just want some of that 2011 love to extend beyond your board to ours.

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I hate drama LOL Love all around

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I agree. This is a board to talk about wedding stuff this isn't high school and now that TWOTY is being chosen randomly we have no control over it anymore as much as that stinks! We just need to show each other with respect bc we are all fellow brides!

Cant the 2011, 2012 and 2013 brides all be friends???

Love,
Another 2012 bride

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Posted by FutureMrsGTL

Cant the 2011, 2012 and 2013 brides all be friends???

Love,
Another 2012 bride

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Youre my friend!!!!

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Posted by allornil

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Posted by FutureMrsGTL

Cant the 2011, 2012 and 2013 brides all be friends???

Love,
Another 2012 bride

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Youre my friend!!!!

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Thanks Amy!

Can someone explain to me what this is for?! Is there an event this year to pick TWOTY and 12 and 11 brides can go?? Im confused!!

DEAR 2012 BRIDES:

PLEASE DON'T THINK THAT SOONTOBEMRSCALI SPEAKS FOR ALL 2011 BRIDES. WE DONT ALL FEEL THAT WAY!!

SINCERELY,
KEDRA
2011 BRIDE

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Posted by kedra5

DEAR 2012 BRIDES:

PLEASE DON'T THINK THAT SOONTOBEMRSCALI SPEAKS FOR ALL 2011 BRIDES. WE DONT ALL FEEL THAT WAY!!

SINCERELY,
KEDRA
2011 BRIDE

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Well said! We are all in this together!

maybe we should add a poll to see who feels this way and who doesn't!?



I have to agree with some people though isn't the point of TYOTY to help brides get ideas for their wedding and to see vendors in action? I am sure it's a great time but that's not the only reason people want to go... For those brides in the beginning stages of planning I am sure it will be helpful...

I am not going to someone can have my spot! lol!

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Posted by mara1017

Us 2012 brides aren't that bad. Don't hate

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Hahahha! This cracked me up! Put away the haterade!

Hugs!

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Posted by kedra5

DEAR 2012 BRIDES:

PLEASE DON'T THINK THAT SOONTOBEMRSCALI SPEAKS FOR ALL 2011 BRIDES. WE DONT ALL FEEL THAT WAY!!

SINCERELY,
KEDRA
2011 BRIDE

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ITA! Drama free zone please!