Dear FMIL....

For the 100th time, PLEASE SEND YOUR INVITE LIST AND ADDRESSES. The invites are here and now Calligraphy is held up because you continue to put this off. If you do not send your list TONIGHT, I will be forced to send invites out to everyone BUT your list.

Thanks!

Love,
your VERY PATIENT FDIL!!!!!!!

patient is right!!!!!! i give u credit!!!!!

u should get the calligraphy done and tell her to hand write the rest

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Posted by gina409

patient is right!!!!!! i give u credit!!!!!

u should get the calligraphy done and tell her to hand write the rest

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I agree

ugggh been there done that.. Not fun!

Sorry

It still continues. I have told my FMIL that i need her to choose the Mother Son Dance song by July 1st. I told her this I would say around December. Its July 23rd and she still hasn't picked one... I have called everyday.. its annoying. I sent my DJ the list of stuff without her song. Too bad.

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Posted by gina409

patient is right!!!!!! i give u credit!!!!!

u should get the calligraphy done and tell her to hand write the rest

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This is what I did. Then had the audacity to get an attitude?

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Posted by gina409

patient is right!!!!!! i give u credit!!!!!

u should get the calligraphy done and tell her to hand write the rest

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lol i agree thats fair punishiment!

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Posted by Cacarina

For the 100th time, PLEASE SEND YOUR INVITE LIST AND ADDRESSES. The invites are here and now Calligraphy is held up because you continue to put this off. If you do not send your list TONIGHT, I will be forced to send invites out to everyone BUT your list.

Thanks!

Love,
your VERY PATIENT FDIL!!!!!!!

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lol where are you getting your invites addressing done? how long did they say it would take?

no, mine just called me up the day after i sent everything to the calligrapher that there were mistakes in her list!! grrrrrrrr!!!!! (found out she was addressing my shower invitations, and that's how she figured it out!) lmao!

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Posted by Cacarina

For the 100th time, PLEASE SEND YOUR INVITE LIST AND ADDRESSES. The invites are here and now Calligraphy is held up because you continue to put this off. If you do not send your list TONIGHT, I will be forced to send invites out to everyone BUT your list.

Thanks!

Love,
your VERY PATIENT FDIL!!!!!!!

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I feel for you. I can't tell you how many times my FMIL had to be asked for this!

Just wanted to share.... My experience was complete opposite... FMIL gave a list the day after we got engaged.
She knew her son will propose soon and was working on the list to give me idea of size of guest list asap

sorry you going through this... Stay patient

I couldn't have said it any better myself. I am having the same exact problem, and no matter how many times I ask nicely, it never gets done.

In fact, I just posted about this earlier this week, and I sent FMIL an email about *this*, and also asking about how her quest for a dress is going, and her rehearsal dinner planning is going.

I received an email back containing only the names and addresses of the friends she asked me to invite.



She's probably mad at me, without telling me (again).

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Posted by gina409

patient is right!!!!!! i give u credit!!!!!

u should get the calligraphy done and tell her to hand write the rest

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lol good idea

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Posted by AugustBridein09

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Posted by gina409

patient is right!!!!!! i give u credit!!!!!

u should get the calligraphy done and tell her to hand write the rest

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I agree

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ITA!!!