Are you gonna lose your deposit on the hall you're at now?
Personally, I would do it. I hate the cold though so there was not a chance in hell I was getting married in a month that could possibly see snow.
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Does your hall have any 2011 summer dates available? Why do you have to wait til 2012? I would assume it would be more expensive in summer 2012 than summer 2011
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Honestly, you have to do what you want to do and what you feel is right. If you want a warm summer wedding and thats always what you've dreamed of, then do that. You only get married once, make it how you want it!!!
You will still be an '11er in our eyes
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I think you really need to sit down and figure out what is most important to you. I always wanted a summer wedding but then I took into consideration how hot FH and the GMs are going to be in their tuxes so we went with September. Also, FH's cousin had her wedding in the beginning of November 2 years ago and it was warm enough to have the CH outside. It's really up to the two of you to decide but remember, you only get married once (hopefully) so you don't want to have any regrets. Sorry if I was absolutley no help lol
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You can do it in September!! September is really nice! It starts to cool down a bit too. I think Sept is a great month.
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I'm not sure where you wedding is scheduled....but there is a date open May 8, 2011 at Crest Hollow Country Club:
Then you could post yours...I'm sure you'll find someone who wants 11/11/11!
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You're not crazy. I have second thoughts when I go to other places. Especially places I did not look at before I chose. If you want to switch....its up to you. You can do it. But if you love your place and want to change your date, just go talk to them and see if they have any dates available that you want. Anything is possible. It is your one and only wedding. Make is your dream. It is always possible to do what you want to do. You just have to figure out exactly what that is.
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Listen....the girls are spending the money no matter what. Its just a matter of when. When are your friends weddings?? As long as there i a week or two between, dont worry. They are all gonna have to buy the dress way in advance anyway....so I wouldn't worry so much.
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I am very indecisive too. My mom keeps saying to me 'rip the bandaid off and choose.' Its not the end of the world. Your wedding is going to be perfect no matter when and where it is. You and FH need to sit down and decide if you want to keep your hall and if you want to move your date. Decide.....its hard, but you can do it. And then just start planning from there. It will be fun.
If you dont mind me asking, what is your current hall? Do you know where you would want to move to?