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Dont worry i call my FH everyday, that i saw a new RH.. he just ignores me... But you should try to enjoy the process a bit more. I second guess myself on everything but i dont stress over it... There will always be something better and different out there, so at point you just have to say this is right for me. and end it
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I do it too!!! I did it with my venue, my dress, the day and time I picked!!!!!!!!!!! I am realizing now that the whole day will be amazing, no matter where we have the wedding, or what day and time we have it!!!!!!!!!
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I think that you should sit down with your FH and really talk to him about your thoughts. Try to work through it together. Look at your budget and look at both of your visions. What works best for both of you?
FH and I planned to get married next month actually originally. We were going to get married in a field with a tent, etc. It would have been fun, but after bringing in everything it would have cost more than what we are paying now by having our wedding in a hall on a Thursday.
The stress level is so much less now that our RH is handling all the details that would have driven us both nuts if we had gone with our original plan.
You have to do what's right for you and what is right for your FH. Don't have regrets!
FH and I planned to get married next month actually originally. We were going to get married in a field with a tent, etc. It would have been fun, but after bringing in everything it would have cost more than what we are paying now by having our wedding in a hall on a Thursday.
The stress level is so much less now that our RH is handling all the details that would have driven us both nuts if we had gone with our original plan.
You have to do what's right for you and what is right for your FH. Don't have regrets!
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OK HELLO I AM THE QUEEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Yes i am having the ceremony there.. (the last 3 church weddings ive gone to, i start thinking OMG im really giving up church bla bla but after a few minutes, i stop myself and remind myself what i want
I only looked there & Fox Hollow, so imagine how much i second guessed myself... every time i saw a diff RH....
I only looked there & Fox Hollow, so imagine how much i second guessed myself... every time i saw a diff RH....
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By the pool. I really wanted the lake, but we wanted the pool area for the cocktail hour and we needed the bigger room...
did you look at places with water view? what happened? didnt work out?
did you look at places with water view? what happened? didnt work out?
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ahhh i see... I had to give up a bigger room to have a nice outdoor area.. I also wanted a stage and WCC has no stage, no designated area for DJ,, kind of looks funny so dont worry, take a breather...
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is chaetue le mer on the water?
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yeah i grew up in Lindy and my FH went to many family parties there and the Venetian Yacht club so it wasn't an option for us. They both are pretty though!!
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ahh i see..
Yeah i had to do Labor Sunday in order to afford WCC and we have way to many guest,,,, we are going to try to do keep it at 250 . so imagine 250 guest in wcc its kind of tight.. see nothign is ever perfect... =) (trying to cheer you up here)
Yeah i had to do Labor Sunday in order to afford WCC and we have way to many guest,,,, we are going to try to do keep it at 250 . so imagine 250 guest in wcc its kind of tight.. see nothign is ever perfect... =) (trying to cheer you up here)
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Posted by soontobmrshammer
I just know there was alot we changed for financial reasons such as a may wedding - we moved it to November to cut costs. From a friday to a sat night. A water view to no view.
you're not alone. I originally wanted a place on the water that only did one wedding at a time. Those were my two absolutes.
Just for fun I went to CHCC and I fell in love with it, but I still second guess it all the time.
Just focus on the fact that your wedding will be beautiful no matter where you have it, and you will not even be thinking about all those things the day you get married. Hang in there, you're not alone!
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I wanted a small wedding and FH wanted a more traditional one. My nerves are more about me being so uncomfortable the whole day. I am a very shy person and being the center of attention like this, just thinking about it makes me nervous. I'm afraid that's gonna ruin it :( We also had to make decisions based on finances. We are doing a Sunday Day wedding because it was the cheapest time. We picked the Coral House because they were by far the cheapest price and FH and I had it set that we had to be married by water. Even tho its not the most fancy place available, we have had a great experience with them there. They have been nothing but accommodating so at least its been a good experience. I hope that you are able to settle on something that gives you peace! This is supposed to be a fun exciting time! :)
