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take your dress with you on your honeymoon and get pics..

thats why im doing..

When u get stressed think of how awesome & special it felt when your fiance proposed to you...It works 4 me

i think we all go alittle crazy.

there are a million ways to make your wedding amazing
so you'll always 2nd guess yourself


i LOVE my dress, but find myself thinking...wow maybe i could have gotten something better, especially when i see other girl post pics of their dresses


i LOVE my venue, but wonder if i could have spent more money for a bigger more glamorous place, especially when i hear people gush over theirs

dont stress- your day will be great- enjoy the process

i had people tell me that - but I really am starting too.

one day he wont be you FH, anymore
there will be no more planning, researching, posting all your 'checks'
you'll wanna look back at this time and you'll wanna have fond memories... so try not to stress

I've been in your situation and we actually ended up switching. We booked at East Wind right after we got engaged, but the more and more we thought about it the more stressed out we got.
We went to Vineyard Caterers adn the minute we walked in the door, we both knew it was the place. We also moved our date from a fall wedding to an early June wedding!

My best advise would be to take a few weeks off from thinking about it! It will help clear your head and your heart. (remember both have to agree).

Check out the lessings website for the shoreham beach club or check out miller beach surf club in miller place (I have heard it is beautiful and very afforable-never been though)

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Posted by soontobmrshammer

yeah although i love the idea of a beach wedding- it changes many things: our date which is pretty special, our budget bc we would have less time to save, church... etc..


my fh does not want to change venues bc he says we will both regret it in the long run. So i am going to take some time away and think about other things besides the hall for the wedding...

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good plan, step back and reflect
hell dont reflect- have mad crazy monkey sex with your FH
that will ease the stress LOL

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Posted by soontobmrshammer

yeah although i love the idea of a beach wedding- it changes many things: our date which is pretty special, our budget bc we would have less time to save, church... etc..


my fh does not want to change venues bc he says we will both regret it in the long run. So i am going to take some time away and think about other things besides the hall for the wedding...

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good plan, step back and reflect
hell dont reflect- have mad crazy monkey sex with your FH
that will ease the stress LOL

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OMG I'm dying right now... I needed a good laugh!

I had a beautiful Sunday morning wedding at the Coral House last October. No its not the fanciest place but the food is excellent, the staff is very helpful and the price is very decent. We had a good time and I believe that the most important element of a wedding was expressed and that was LOVE. I'm not the most outgoing either but once you are in the spotlight its kind of like you embrace and just go with the flow. Don't worry it will be great! BTW the shots by the lake will be beautiful people who saw my pics thought I was somewhere exotic..