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Mommy2BeBride Posted: Nov 25, 2009 11:53 AM

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Bee12 Posted: Nov 25, 2009 11:56 AM

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its a different song by S. Twain and even if it was the same song which it is not... it will always have a different meaning for you and your boo

dont stress, love!

Mommy2BeBride Posted: Nov 25, 2009 12:09 PM

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Yes I know it's very different and at least our song has meaning to us, but it still frustrates me!

chelley720 Posted: Nov 25, 2009 12:17 PM

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if its two different songs i dont think its a big deal but i def understand being upset. I would try talking to her about how they picked their song then explain how u always knew what ur song would be maybe she will change it.

kris_gets_hitched Posted: Nov 25, 2009 12:18 PM

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I think just like with most aspects of a wedding, we can't expect to have a monopoly on all of the details.

To be perfectly honest, while I know the song means the world to you and your FH, I cannot for the life of me recall the first dance songs for any of the weddings I've gone to...so any overlapping guests at both of your weddings probably won't notice either. Plus, it's different songs.

MikesBride2B Posted: Nov 25, 2009 12:24 PM

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I think you are making a big deal out of nothing. As a wedding guest, I've never once said 'OMG, I can't believe they chose this song as their first dance song!!!'

Its whatever is special to you and FH that matters.

marinai7 Posted: Nov 25, 2009 12:36 PM

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I think it's ok - it's 2 different songs.

CarolAnn721 Posted: Nov 25, 2009 12:44 PM

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No matter what, you have to remember that happiness is the greatest revenge. Doesn't matter what she does. Do your day, the way you want it.

April_Luv Posted: Nov 25, 2009 12:53 PM

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Small thing to a big giant!
Diff song so no sweat...
All the more reason not to tell others what your plans are.....

Future Mrs P Posted: Nov 25, 2009 12:53 PM

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Even if it is the same artist, it means so much to you and your FH that no matter what anyone else chooses it will still be the most special to you. I wouldn't stress about it!!!

Future Mrs H Posted: Nov 25, 2009 12:54 PM

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Its 2 totally different songs- Dont be upset. I would be if it was the same song though

Mommy2BeBride Posted: Nov 25, 2009 01:40 PM

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Thanks ladies, I feel a little better now!

Lu2700 Posted: Nov 25, 2009 01:47 PM

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i wouldnt stress too much about it. its a completely different song

FutureMrsSoltan Posted: Nov 25, 2009 01:49 PM

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Posted by MikesBride2B

I think you are making a big deal out of nothing. As a wedding guest, I've never once said 'OMG, I can't believe they chose this song as their first dance song!!!'

Its whatever is special to you and FH that matters.

i agree and im sure most of ur guests wont remember her song by the time ur wedding comes along.

heathery72 Posted: Nov 25, 2009 03:16 PM

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How close are your weddings? It is a different song , maybe ppl won't remember/realize it's the same person.? I think the bottom line is though that your first song is for you and your FH. Who cares what everyone else thinks? Your song will make it your moment

Neeks Posted: Nov 25, 2009 03:16 PM

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Dont worry about it no big deal same artist different song your song its better anyway LOL i love shania twain

Mommy2BeBride Posted: Nov 25, 2009 03:19 PM

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Our weddings are a year apart, so honestly it should be ok. It just stressed me out a little bit at the moment, but i'm over it.. Thanks Ladies for all your imputs <3

monamiestephanie Posted: Nov 25, 2009 03:26 PM

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The one advice that everyone that's already married has told me thus far is not to stress the details...because the details won't matter after the big day is over.

I think it's okay that they're also using the same artist. It's that particular song that matters to you.

vv117 Posted: Nov 25, 2009 04:19 PM

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UGH that is annoying and i would be frustrated too. BUT like everyone said, it's still your song and it's a different song. nobody looks back and remembers other people's wedding songs so it's more important that you and FH choose a meaningful song bc you will be the only two who remember it. HTH.

Summer Bride 2011 Posted: Nov 25, 2009 04:26 PM

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It's two different songs. I don't think you should be upset. The song you selected has meaning to you and your FH. If she changed her mind so quickly from her Elvis song to the Shania Twain maybe she'll change it again. Just don't get so upset over it!