It's a different song! if her intentions were really to piss you off, she would have chosen the same song. I would still go on with your song choice.
i really do not think it is a big deal if it is a different song. plus, how far apart are your weddings? i don't think i even remember most of the 'first dance' songs i hear at weddings so i doubt anyone will make the connection that it is the same artist. no worries!
I wouldn't worry. It's a different song and no one will remember anyway.
i wouldnt stress this.... in the big sceme of things it's not a great big deal.... obviously they dont really have a special song anybody can just pic randomly... yours has TRUE meaning... thats what really counts!
