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Re: disillusionment? (vent) LONG...jus realized how long sorry
Yes. In fact, in the early stages of our wedding planning we were fighting even more than usual. I think there is so much pressure for the engagement to be an overly happy and joyous time that when it does happen you are not ready for all the stress planning a wedding can bring on.
In the end, FH and I just had to take a step back and really talk about what was important to us. We both realized it was so silly to fight about a wedding. I know it so easier said than done but hang in there it will get better!!!!!
In the end, FH and I just had to take a step back and really talk about what was important to us. We both realized it was so silly to fight about a wedding. I know it so easier said than done but hang in there it will get better!!!!!
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omg Gina! we get into funks alllllllll the time!!!!!!!
im going to fm you later though xoxo
im going to fm you later though xoxo
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I know how you feel. FH and I just got into a huge argument the other day over something that was sooo petty. We both said some hurtful things to eachother and didnt speak for like 2 days. We finally worked our issues out yesterday. Ever since we've been planning this wedding we have gotten into more arguments ![]()
Dont worry, im sure everything will work out, i think its the stress from the wedding.
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i'm sorry you are so frustrated right now![]()
i think its totally normal. there are always ups and downs in relationships and times when you seem to fight more often. fh and i have been together almost 7 years and i know we def have times we seem to be in a funk but I think the most important thing is to just communicate and work on things so it gets better. if you ignore the issues then your frustration will just continue to build.
dont worry...just talk to your fh about the invite issues and why your upset. things will work out![]()
i think its totally normal. there are always ups and downs in relationships and times when you seem to fight more often. fh and i have been together almost 7 years and i know we def have times we seem to be in a funk but I think the most important thing is to just communicate and work on things so it gets better. if you ignore the issues then your frustration will just continue to build.
dont worry...just talk to your fh about the invite issues and why your upset. things will work out
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It happens to us all the time! FH and I fight A LOT about major things AND dumb things. Sometimes I get so upset that I wonder about our wedding plans!! That happened more in the beginning though, now I just fantasize about ripping his face off!
He says I can't handle stress, but he can't handle it either and he takes most of his frustrations out on me. I used to get so upset when he'd threaten me or yell at me, but now the b*tch side of me has taken over and I yell right back and tell him to SHOVE his threats!
Don't worry kid, you're definitely NOT alone.
He says I can't handle stress, but he can't handle it either and he takes most of his frustrations out on me. I used to get so upset when he'd threaten me or yell at me, but now the b*tch side of me has taken over and I yell right back and tell him to SHOVE his threats!
Don't worry kid, you're definitely NOT alone.
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you are not alone hun!!
sent you FM!!!
sent you FM!!!
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