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AngnShaun Posted: Jan 11, 2010 09:28 AM

Re: very awkward situation-will be taking down eventually

i wouldnt send him one... but thats jmo

Soon2bShea Posted: Jan 11, 2010 09:29 AM

Re: very awkward situation-will be taking down eventually

interesting...hmm...

id say add him to his parents invitation, may be insulting not to include him?

FutureMrsSoltan Posted: Jan 11, 2010 09:29 AM

Re: very awkward situation-will be taking down eventually

Posted by AngnShaun

i wouldnt send him one... but thats jmo

i agree i wouldnt send one

AdriandSteve Posted: Jan 11, 2010 09:31 AM

Re: very awkward situation-will be taking down eventually

I might send it to them addressing it to 'and family'.

ShellyNY Posted: Jan 11, 2010 09:32 AM

Re: very awkward situation-will be taking down eventually

Is there someone that can call his parents and just say that you and FH know that he's not able to attend the wedding but want him to know he is thought of so is ok if the invite is sent to their house? Chances are the parents will say don't waste an invite, but this way they know he was thought of, and you don't feel guilty?

Jna2010 Posted: Jan 11, 2010 09:32 AM

Re: very awkward situation-will be taking down eventually

i would maybe address the envelope as mr and mrs smith & family.... and if you inviting the 24 year old with guest either write and guest (which i think is obvious its for the 24 year old) or just tell h im verbally

StaceyWill Posted: Jan 11, 2010 09:33 AM

Re: very awkward situation-will be taking down eventually

Posted by AdriandSteve

I might send it to them addressing it to 'and family'.

ITA

MrsHandsome2Be Posted: Jan 11, 2010 09:33 AM

Re: very awkward situation-will be taking down eventually

i would just address it to : The XXXX Family

Future Mrs H Posted: Jan 11, 2010 09:34 AM

Re: very awkward situation-will be taking down eventually

Posted by AdriandSteve

I might send it to them addressing it to 'and family'.

ITA

Tracey1979 Posted: Jan 11, 2010 09:35 AM

Re: very awkward situation-will be taking down eventually

i wouldn't send invite

Golden Posted: Jan 11, 2010 09:35 AM

Re: very awkward situation-will be taking down eventually

I definitely wouldn't send one.

GiannisWifey Posted: Jan 11, 2010 09:36 AM

Re: very awkward situation-will be taking down eventually

Posted by Jna2010

i would maybe address the envelope as mr and mrs smith & family.... and if you inviting the 24 year old with guest either write and guest (which i think is obvious its for the 24 year old) or just tell h im verbally

ITA

mariedsgn Posted: Jan 11, 2010 09:37 AM

Re: very awkward situation-will be taking down eventually

I would just send him an invitation

Lsorrent Posted: Jan 11, 2010 09:44 AM

Re: very awkward situation-will be taking down eventually

Posted by MrsHandsome2Be

i would just address it to : The XXXX Family

I agree

flibbertigibbet Posted: Jan 11, 2010 09:44 AM

Re: very awkward situation-will be taking down eventually

Posted by AngnShaun

i wouldnt send him one... but thats jmo

i'm on with this.

and depending on how close he is with his aunt and uncle maybe just be like 'obviously we wish he could be there, but we're not sure how to handle the whole thing with invites and what not'

allegracristina Posted: Jan 11, 2010 09:47 AM

Re: very awkward situation-will be taking down eventually

I would not put his name on the invite.

julesrbf Posted: Jan 11, 2010 09:55 AM

Re: very awkward situation-will be taking down eventually

Posted by Jna2010

i would maybe address the envelope as mr and mrs smith & family.... and if you inviting the 24 year old with guest either write and guest (which i think is obvious its for the 24 year old) or just tell h im verbally

ITA, that is exactly what I would do.

jennybee Posted: Jan 11, 2010 09:58 AM

Re: very awkward situation-will be taking down eventually

Posted by AdriandSteve

I might send it to them addressing it to 'and family'.

Exactly. Either 'and family' or 'The XXXXX Family'.

brittndave Posted: Jan 11, 2010 09:59 AM

Re: very awkward situation-will be taking down eventually

Posted by GiannisWifey

Posted by Jna2010

i would maybe address the envelope as mr and mrs smith & family.... and if you inviting the 24 year old with guest either write and guest (which i think is obvious its for the 24 year old) or just tell h im verbally

ITA

me too