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CappyGirl Posted:

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halfbaked Posted:

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If you already said they could come, I'd just let them come. Get them a coloring book and stick 'em in a corner with some juice and cookies, at least they'll have each other to entertain themselves.

brittndave Posted:

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when your mom and moh send out the invitations tell them to write adults only or something so that you don't have to address it with them. chances are their moms prob won't want to bring them anyway

MrsC2010 Posted:

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its totally your call. I was at a shower with a 2 year old girl there and she kept trying to unwrap all the gifts...but it was actually really cute.

christine2010 Posted:

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its really personal opinion.

my two flower girls are 5 & 2, they are my nieces. i always included them in the list for the shower. i couldn't even imagine them not being there. for the past 2 years the only thing that we talk about is the wedding so i know they are super excited about it. i am a little concerned about their behavior in a restaurant but i have a feeling they will be very good since their brother will not be their in instigate them. i guess we shall see.
flibbertigibbet Posted:

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i think it would be boring for a flower girl. 2 year olds are antsy. if she's like 7-8 then sure.

i'd tell their moms they are welcome but make sure they have a special kids table with stuff to play with and special kid food.
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little j Posted:

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i never even thought of this as being an issue....hmmm...not sure what to do...

so kids usually arent invited to a shower?
jcreilly Posted:

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My 3 year old niece was fine for my shower she just want me to open all the gifts right away -lol she was great while I was opening up all the gifts she actually bought ( pushed ) most of them over to me she had a great time, she loves all the girlie things. I do not think you can dis invite them

Chelechel1 Posted:

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Every shower I have been to, there have been kids there. Maybe you can tell the girls that they can help you unwrap the gifts. Or maybe that would be too crazy, I don't know!
AdriandSteve Posted:

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I'm trying to decide this now. My fg's are 10, 7, and 7. They are old enough but it comes down to more of a budget issue for my mom. We're also trying to decide if we're going to invite my 15 yr old cousin to.

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flibbertigibbet Posted:

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Posted by Chelechel1

Every shower I have been to, there have been kids there. Maybe you can tell the girls that they can help you unwrap the gifts. Or maybe that would be too crazy, I don't know!


LOL i wouldn't be down with this. my presents? i'm opening them!

give them crayons and let them learn to act appropriately in social scenarios.
Jna2010 Posted:

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Posted by jilliibabii

If you already said they could come, I'd just let them come. Get them a coloring book and stick 'em in a corner with some juice and cookies, at least they'll have each other to entertain themselves.


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Clover23 Posted:

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Ah, u gotta do what ur comfy with. I would never exclude my FGs but that's bc they're my nieces and I have wathced each of rthem grow up n love them like my own. Couldn't care less if the took attn away from me bc I hate attention lol!!!

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