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latinaj Posted: Feb 11, 2010 12:23 PM

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thx for the advice!

cateydee Posted: Feb 11, 2010 12:25 PM

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if she wants u there, then y not go?

MikesBride2B Posted: Feb 11, 2010 12:26 PM

Re: so a while i ago i posted about not wanting to be a bm

I'd say you should go....unless you don't want to be her friend anymore.

latinaj Posted: Feb 11, 2010 12:29 PM

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kris_gets_hitched Posted: Feb 11, 2010 12:29 PM

Re: so a while i ago i posted about not wanting to be a bm

Posted by MikesBride2B

I'd say you should go....unless you don't want to be her friend anymore.

Agreed!

kris_gets_hitched Posted: Feb 11, 2010 12:30 PM

Re: so a while i ago i posted about not wanting to be a bm

Posted by latinaj

i just think it's weird that we're invited...esp bc we havent talked i guess...

but now i feel bad, bc we werent planning on inviting them?

I don't remember the original post about this...is this person a friend/coworker/acquaintance?

I'm guessing one of the last two if you weren't planning on inviting her..

latinaj Posted: Feb 11, 2010 12:30 PM

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soontobecruz Posted: Feb 11, 2010 12:32 PM

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Sure if she invites you... who knows maybe she asked you thinking you wanted to be in it and would hurt your feelings if you weren't asked.

NO need to end a friendship bc you arn't in someones wedding

latinaj Posted: Feb 11, 2010 12:35 PM

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soontobecruz Posted: Feb 11, 2010 12:38 PM

Re: so a while i ago i posted about not wanting to be a bm

Posted by latinaj

Posted by soontobecruz

Sure if she invites you... who knows maybe she asked you thinking you wanted to be in it and would hurt your feelings if you weren't asked.

NO need to end a friendship bc you arn't in someones wedding

we didnt end the friendship...
actually its a really complicated story....we are coworkers, not 'friend' coworkers... straight business....i was very very very very veryyyy shocked she asked me to a bm (the girl has sisters, y ask me?)

i dont mind going bc other coworkers will be there and it wil be fun, but then do we invite her to ours? she wasnt in our guest list

I don't think you have too. it is weird that she asked you btw... I thought you were friends-friends

Maybe keep her on the B list

SummerBride10 Posted: Feb 11, 2010 12:38 PM

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Posted by latinaj

Posted by soontobecruz

Sure if she invites you... who knows maybe she asked you thinking you wanted to be in it and would hurt your feelings if you weren't asked.

NO need to end a friendship bc you arn't in someones wedding

we didnt end the friendship...
actually its a really complicated story....we are coworkers, not 'friend' coworkers... straight business....i was very very very very veryyyy shocked she asked me to a bm (the girl has sisters, y ask me?)

i dont mind going bc other coworkers will be there and it wil be fun, but then do we invite her to ours? she wasnt in our guest list

Are you inviting your other co-workers? If you are, I would invite her.