because you all are right. I just need to stop stressing and in the end my wedding will be perfect!
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noooo dont worry!!! give it time...people do it right away...then you slowly them and then get more at the end!! you have time. try not to stress...you will get more people..trust me!! dont listen to your mom! that was rude to say
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no, that's not it at all ... i would definitely go to someone's 2nd wedding just as readily as their first!
don't stress - there will be many more yes's soon
canmigs
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Celia...don't worry! This is my second wedding as well and no one had a problem with that fact. Your response will come. People just suck at returning the cards.
Future Mrs H
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I know its silly to think this- but my moms words are haunting me. I am hoping I say say to HER 'I told you so'
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im so sorry Celia... that was wrong of her to say to you...
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I know its silly to think this- but my moms words are haunting me. I am hoping I say say to HER 'I told you so'
C.....you will have the last laugh and there will be family at your wedding. There is still time. Stop panicking this is letting mom win.
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Honestly, I just think people are dumb when it comes to returning rsvp's. I would go to somebody's wedding regardless if it was their first, second, or even third wedding. Everybodys had to hunt people down for rsvp answers... Just wait it out til ur rsvp date then call people to find out whether or not their coming.
Im getting Married
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It sucks that your mom said such a thing..who cares if it is a 2nd wedding.
I'm sure people are just slackers and haven't sent back the reply card.
You will be able to say 'Told YOU so'.
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I know its silly to think this- but my moms words are haunting me. I am hoping I say say to HER 'I told you so'
C.....you will have the last laugh and there will be family at your wedding. There is still time. Stop panicking this is letting mom win.
Sis- you remember how that bothered me when she said that- It always stuck in the back of my head.. i will have the last laugh though.
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Don't panic...People do stink at returning rsvps.. I am getting remarried and I had some doozy of comments in this planning process... I am widowed,and had family tell me how inappropriate it was to do what I am doing...Meanwhile FH was never married.. I am so excited to be marrying him and am going to celebrate it...life it too short.. I am sure your family and friends who matter will be there and celebrate with you....I know my family has come around.... Don't let anyone rain on your parade.....
Future Mrs H
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You guys are so right- I need to stop stressing. People will come and those who dont well fcuk them- its their loss. I am going to marry my best friend and have a wonderful celebration.
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NOO dont feel that way!!
I am still waiting for HALF my responses and my date is next week.
Dont worry, they will come!!
canmigs
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You guys are so right- I need to stop stressing. People will come and those who dont well fcuk them- its their loss. I am going to marry my best friend and have a wonderful celebration.
Exactly!!!
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no, that's not it at all ... i would definitely go to someone's 2nd wedding just as readily as their first!
don't stress - there will be many more yes's soon
ITA! They'll trickle in. Sorry about your mom
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I dont think a 2nd wedding would have anything to do with it... Its just hard when it comes to getting those rsvp's back-people are idiots!.... When is your rsvp date?
halfbaked
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No way! That's not it at all! People are just RSVP retarded! Don't sweat it!
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I think people think your September wedding is so far away and they will 'get to' sending their RSVP back. I'm getting married in 10 days and just received 2 responses back yesterday!
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Crashing... Celia, don't feel that way! You deserve to have a second wedding. Whoever wants to be there will be there, and whoever doesn't can go FCUK themselves! When is your RSVP date? A bunch will come after it has passed. And you can find plenty of LIW girls to come if you need!
