depressed......

JacnRob729 Posted: Oct 17, 2004 02:22 PM

depressed......

I feel so bad.....my parents are paying for most of our wedding. The other day my brother comes in all excited saying that his school is offering a trip to Mexico....him and a couple of his friends want to go....well my mom has been saying that he cant go....i asked her why today, she said, because were paying for the wedding and we dont have the money....so now my brother cant go away just because Im getting married....i feel so bad...i dont know what to do.....thanks for letting me vent

Monkeybride Posted: Oct 17, 2004 02:39 PM

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Can't you offer to save up the money it would cost for your brother's trip for your wedding and let your parents give him that amount to go? It seems like you have enough time to save up something.

bogiedmb41 Posted: Oct 17, 2004 03:26 PM

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Posted by Monkeybride

Can't you offer to save up the money it would cost for your brother's trip for your wedding and let your parents give him that amount to go? It seems like you have enough time to save up something.

I agree, find out how much it is and see if you could save it for him, that would be really nice!

JacnRob729 Posted: Oct 17, 2004 03:38 PM

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I just talked to my fh....we're going to give him the money to go....my bro seriously is the best kid in the world!......i was trying to think of a way to tell fh that i was going to pay for it....and before i could.....he said, lets take the money out of the wedding fund.....hes so great....and he knows what a wonderful kid my bro is.....im so excited...cant wait to tell my bro!

May05Bride Posted: Oct 17, 2004 03:42 PM

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Thats awesome! and so nice of you and your FI!

Monkeybride Posted: Oct 17, 2004 03:45 PM

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Posted by JacnRob729

I just talked to my fh....we're going to give him the money to go....my bro seriously is the best kid in the world!......i was trying to think of a way to tell fh that i was going to pay for it....and before i could.....he said, lets take the money out of the wedding fund.....hes so great....and he knows what a wonderful kid my bro is.....im so excited...cant wait to tell my bro!

Good decision. Trust me good deeds will come back you.
I know your brother will realize how lucky he is to have a sister like you.

BriBri529 Posted: Oct 17, 2004 04:49 PM

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Great decision!

Dooodles Posted: Oct 17, 2004 05:05 PM

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Sounds like a wonderful decision

ANA6178 Posted: Oct 17, 2004 06:31 PM

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Posted by JacnRob729

I just talked to my fh....we're going to give him the money to go....my bro seriously is the best kid in the world!......i was trying to think of a way to tell fh that i was going to pay for it....and before i could.....he said, lets take the money out of the wedding fund.....hes so great....and he knows what a wonderful kid my bro is.....im so excited...cant wait to tell my bro!

That is so great. Your brother will never forget this...

Isn't it nice to know that there are still nice people in this world....

marymoon Posted: Oct 17, 2004 06:33 PM

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That's awesome! You're a great sistwer and your FH is a wonderful FBIL!

Katherine121 Posted: Oct 17, 2004 06:42 PM

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All it takes is a little love and understanding. That FH of yours definitely sounds like a keeper. You should marry him.

FoxHollowbride0617 Posted: Oct 17, 2004 07:15 PM

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That is a great idea. Your Bro is going to be so excited!!!

JacnRob729 Posted: Oct 17, 2004 08:10 PM

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Posted by Kaylo999

All it takes is a little love and understanding. That FH of yours definitely sounds like a keeper. You should marry him.

yeah....im thinking about marrying him!! And we just told my bro....at first he was like no no, but the smile on his face was priceless! We told him he has no choice....and now hes excited. I havent told my parents yet, because I know once we do, they will feel bad and say they will pay for it....but now its really something that we want to do!!!!!