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DH will NOT talk about TTC with me.....he says it's a jinx

btrflygrl Posted: Oct 21, 2004 09:22 AM+

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Posted: Oct 21, 2004 09:22 AM

DH will NOT talk about TTC with me.....he says it's a jinx

He is just SO superstitious and says the more we talk about it, the more stressed out we'll get and then it won't happen.

So I guess I'm coming here for advice and to talk!

wc0143 Posted: Oct 21, 2004 09:30 AM+

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Posted: Oct 21, 2004 09:30 AM

Re: DH will NOT talk about TTC with me.....he says it's a jinx

Aw Shana - that's cute!!

AliKing Posted: Oct 21, 2004 09:46 AM+

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Posted: Oct 21, 2004 09:46 AM

Re: DH will NOT talk about TTC with me.....he says it's a jinx

My Dh was the same way. He thought I was becoming obsessed and worried that I would become depressed.
Talk to us! Thats what the boards are for!!!

antoinette Posted: Oct 21, 2004 11:40 AM+

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Posted: Oct 21, 2004 11:40 AM

Re: DH will NOT talk about TTC with me.....he says it's a jinx

i think guys hate the whole planning process becuase they feel it takes away from the passion of the 'deed'

lilmrs Posted: Oct 21, 2004 11:43 AM+

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Posted: Oct 21, 2004 11:43 AM

Re: DH will NOT talk about TTC with me.....he says it's a jinx

Feel free to chat with me about it all you want!

Emily7 Posted: Oct 21, 2004 12:21 PM+

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Posted: Oct 21, 2004 12:21 PM

Re: DH will NOT talk about TTC with me.....he says it's a jinx

I definitely agree that they worry that takes it away the passion -- and sometimes that if it's too planned and methodical the 'deed' becomes more difficult ...if you know what I mean!

jacardi Posted: Oct 21, 2004 12:28 PM+

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Posted: Oct 21, 2004 12:28 PM

Re: DH will NOT talk about TTC with me.....he says it's a jinx

I have decided to not obsess this month and see what happans, maybe that will work NO temping and BD'ing like crazy-

antoinette Posted: Oct 21, 2004 12:52 PM+

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Posted: Oct 21, 2004 12:52 PM

Re: DH will NOT talk about TTC with me.....he says it's a jinx

Posted by Emily7

I definitely agree that they worry that takes it away the passion -- and sometimes that if it's too planned and methodical the 'deed' becomes more difficult ...if you know what I mean!

true

Jmg11 Posted: Oct 21, 2004 12:58 PM+

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Posted: Oct 21, 2004 12:58 PM

Re: DH will NOT talk about TTC with me.....he says it's a jinx

My Dh is the opposite - we aren't even trying yet, but he is always talking about when we should start and trying to figure out when the baby would be born (he doesn't want a december baby so it won't be left back) He is a little obsessed but I find it charming.

Niecey Posted: Oct 21, 2004 01:37 PM+

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Posted: Oct 21, 2004 01:37 PM

Re: DH will NOT talk about TTC with me.....he says it's a jinx

We were like your DH, DH and I never really discussed much about it - I find it becomes more easy to relax about that way. I think it is something many people get very obbsessed about and found people who stopped obsessing over it had better luck when they did!

Princess52904 Posted: Oct 21, 2004 08:31 PM+

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Posted: Oct 21, 2004 08:31 PM

Re: DH will NOT talk about TTC with me.....he says it's a jinx

Feel free to talk to Me. In a way DH is right but you still want to talk about something exciting as having a baby. SO please don't ever hesitate to chat.

no stress bride Posted: Oct 22, 2004 08:30 AM+

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Posted: Oct 22, 2004 08:30 AM