Diamond wedding bands--question

ETERNITY BANDS...MY FAVORITE! I AGREE THAT THE COLOR SHOULD MATCH YOUR ERING! ALTHOUGH,MOST PEOPLE DONT WHERE A ETERNITY BAND WITH A ERING. PERSONALLY I THINK BOTH SHOULD STAND ALONE! AS FAR CLARITY GOES IT DOESNT HAVE TO BE AS GOOD AS YOUR ERING B/C THE STONES ARE SMALLER AND WHAT PEOPLE ARE LOOKING AT IS THE COLOR! JUST MAKE SURE YOU STAY AWAY ROM I STONES! REMEBER MOST OF US ARE ON A BUDGET AND TO KEEP OSTS DOWN YOU SHOULD ALWAYS UPGRADE COLOR BEFORE QUALITY! AS FAR AS SIZING GOES...(IT CAN BE DONE!!!) AGAIN MOST JEWELERS WONT OR CANT DO IT BECAUSE 'THEY ARENT REAL JEWELERS' BUT AGAIN FROM BEING IN THE BUSINESS WE DO IT ALL DAY LONG IT JUST TAKES SKILL! THE ONLY THING I HIGHLY RECOMMEND IS GETTING IT SET IN 14K! MOST PEOPLE WILL TALK YOU INTO PLATINUM BECAUSE IT IS MORE MONEY BUT REMEMBER THAT PLAT IS A PURE AND SOFT METAL! GOLD IS ALOT STRONGER AND CAN HANDLE ALOT MORE DAMAGE! ALSO TRY AND HAVE IT SET WITH 4 PRONGS!!! MUCH SAFER! IM SORRY FOR RAMBLING, BUT I LIKE TO HELP OUT!