Ok well I moved into my new place w/ FI is this wkd. He has been living here for about 2 mons now and I just moved in now. Im extremely happy to finally be living w/ him but Im feeling kinda down too. I think its just really hard to get used to the idea that this is my new home and not w/ my parents anymore. Plus, I REALLY miss my dog and I cant stop thinking about him. Did anyone else have a hard time adjusting to their new life living w/ FI? Im so glad though I did this now before the wedding so I can be settled in. Thoughts???
idovig
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It takes a few months for the adjustment period but it will be good.
MrsFelix
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It was hard for me to move in with my FI just recently in July. It had just been me and my son for so long that when we 'officially' moved in together is was VERY hard on me. Mostly because I'm so independent, my mom raised me as a single parent and I was taught to depend on myself. It's hard adjusting to having to share everything. But it's such a great feeling to know that he's there whenever I need him. It'll get better, just hang in there.
LaurenluvsTJ
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I know its going to be hard for me. We are going to get an apartment in March, and for the three months before the wedding, FH will live there alone, while I slowly move all my stuff and stay on some weekends. By doing it slowly, I hope I will be able to adjust to it better, but I know that once it becomes official after the wedding, I will have a difficult time. I already informed FH of this, so he knows in advance. I know I will have trouble sleeping and maybe have some boughts of crying/feeling sad, and I don't want him to think its because of him or us being married.
RadioLau
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Can't you take the dog or at least share him or her? LIke custody? That's what I did at first. I have him full time now though because he is a senior citizen and too overwhelming for my parents.
TheBigDay
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I really didnt, i considered him my home before i moved in w/him.. i hated not being with him, we also had a more unique situation cause except the first 5 months we were long distance... i couldnt be happier being living with him... not to mention i moved 3000 miles away from my home of many yrs to move in with him...
Shiv
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I practically tortured my FI when we moved in together. I really put him through hell, but it was just me being nervous about moving in together. Mind you we were not engaged at the time and my family is very catholic, so I think I was just uneasy. But it became easier as time went on, when I stopped being so emotional, haha. It's totally normal and it will get better!
