I have an appointment to meet with a florist tomorrow. FH said that he would prefer not to go because it doesn't really matter to him what flowers we choose (men... ). He said that if I realllllly need him there then he will attend with me. (He's gone with me to all other vendor appts for RHs and photographer so far.) I'm trying to decide if I should just go by myself or make FH go with me. Did FH attend ALL vendor meetings with you girls...or did you go to a couple by yourself?
JoanneAndJustin
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FH went to everything, but I didn't make him... he wanted to go. Besides, it's his $$ too!
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Yeah mine didn't go with me to flowers either, the others - yes...
Lsorrent
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Flowers and invites I'm on my own for. Which I kind of expected anyway....I couldn't imagine FH wanting anything to do with those
But he came with me to RHs, photo, band, and limo.
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this is really funny that u ask this because FH has come to ALL of the appointments with me (minus the limos because he couldnt make it but he came a diff day to see our cars)
but so yes he came to everything else including meeting with our florist......
HE WAS LITERALLY KICKING ME UNDER THE TABLE DURING THAT MEETING!!!!!!!!!!!
he hated me for making him go to the florist, thats the one thing he really does not care for, and we were there for 2.5 hours talking about my vision/ideas from the florist, etc...and he hated every minute of it!!
he will NOT be attending our design session next month!! LOL My mom will be coming :)
if ur FH is saying he really doesnt want to go, i wouldnt push him to go to that one, bring ur mom or ur MOH or something
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FH went to every single one (he wasnt happy, but he did come ) and the florist tells him 'she owes you....guys dont show up for this stuff. She owes you big time.'
So of course FH always refers back to this when I ask him smthin wedding related and hes not interested
MikesBride2B
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FH was in Ohio when I had most of the vendor appointments so I went with my mom. Flowers were actually important to him (go figure) so I waited on those appointments until he was in NY.
ellie424
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Thanks so much for your responses! I'm happy I posted this because I have a feeling FH would be kicking me under the table as well!! Especially if it's a long meeting!! I think I'm going to let FH off the hook...I'm sure he will appreciate the input from you girls!!!
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FH told me Ill go to any vendor appointment wtih you EXCEPT the florist. He is like you are on your own with that one. I am dreading this vendor myself since its the next one on the list.
LaurenJosh
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He has gone to every one so far but I'm not even going to bother asking him to see the florist with me. I just know he wouldn't be into it!
RitasEngaged
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He went to all of them except for florists
Summertimegal424
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DH went to the photographer with me and the hall , thats about it. i dragged him to go register and he had soo much fun doing that. as for the DJ i met w/ them first then i took DH with me to meet again, and we booked on the spot. I did the flowers w/ my mom. eta : i also did the limo myself too.
we had discussed everything before hand and i went and did the finalizing. he just really wasn't into doing it, or he was busy w/ work!
mrsdraskin2009
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Nope....he went to meet the photog, that was it.
stinenandy2010
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Fh was only involved in picking the RH, other then that everything was up to me.
JillandJoe
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Fh wants to go to most appts and be consulted on decisions, but he is acting like its 'getting old' to him...which works for me, i dont mind doing it
iquel
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FH has gone with me to all the appointments. He actually loves to be apart of the wedding planning. Besides he knows I would go over our budget LOL
Trose
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FH only did the RH search and signing with me. Other than that I was all on my own. I went with my sister - MOH and mother.
Roccosgirl
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We haven't booked everything yet, but I can't see my FH wanting to go with me to pick out the flowers and I totally understand that.
JAAMS
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FH came to the ones that he could. He came to ALL the RHs and DJs. I went to a few video/photo people by myself, because FH works full time, I don't. So it's a little easier for me to schedule appointments.
WOOHOOO! We've landed in PA btw!
GR2010
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Everything but the florist. That me and my mom did.
