I have an appointment to meet with a florist tomorrow. FH said that he would prefer not to go because it doesn't really matter to him what flowers we choose (men... ). He said that if I realllllly need him there then he will attend with me. (He's gone with me to all other vendor appts for RHs and photographer so far.) I'm trying to decide if I should just go by myself or make FH go with me. Did FH attend ALL vendor meetings with you girls...or did you go to a couple by yourself?
Kiki1103
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Nope, FH only came to some of the RH appts, and the band. He didnt want to be bothered with the florsts. And photog I already knew who i wanted before I booked, so he didnt come along since the decision was already made.
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FH came with me every time, but there was no need for him at the florist. He hated being there and barely even spoke the whole time. lol. Needless to say, the second time I went to the florist to discuss flowers, he didn't come.
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nope fh hasnt been to 1 vendor appt with me. not even the rh. i booked it then showed him.
he doesnt care. he and i are the same person when it comes to decor and he says ' the wedding is for the woman' men just show up.
besides, i do better alone at appts. i dont have to hear him huff and puff and grunt.
ppl are such an inconvenience to me. i cant even go shopping with ppl!
doreen82
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FH went to everything with me so far. He made sure he was off of work cause he likes to help with everything...plus hes paying for the wedding so he wants to know what im picking out. lol
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For RH, photos, and limos: FH only went after I narrowed it down to two vendors. For these three vendors, he was there to sign and go over the contract.
Video: just me and MOH/sis. I only visited one and planned on booking regardless.
DJ: I only visited one and booked on the spot with FH.
Florists: FH could care less. When I bought home the sample CP, he said 'why is there so much purple and green in there.' My response: 'Duh, Mike you said I could choose the color scheme for the wedding.' I'm, actually going back to see the edits of the sample CP and have no one to go with.
Invitations: He is involved because it's all done via email. The other day I wanted to add sage green to the invite and he said, 'leave it alone.'
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FH wanted to go to everything but, being off for summer I wanted to get some stuff done durinng the day. So I asked him if he'd mine if I looked at florists him, he agreed, I looked at six florists w. my gma. He will go when we book the florist though.
StaceyWill
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FH is really involved in all the planning...He came to all the appts. with me and picked out our DJ and our centerpieces...
Maria5117
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FH has come to all the appointments because i made him come... It's his wedding too... but he's completely disinteresed in it and all he does nis complain about the money... sometimes it causes arguments and gets me upset... those are the times that the planning isnt fun and that i wish we werent having a bid wedding and just signing marriage papers. at a cout house somewhere... just today we arugued because i wanted to talk about the honeymoon and he wanted no part of it.... so I cry and he says i always make a big deal out of nothing.... i've been in a sad mood all day!! oh well!
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fh has been pretty involved. i did initialy research and narrowed down a list of vendors we should meet but he came to all the appts and did a lot of phone calls to negotiate prices. I didnt think he would care when it came to flowers...but surprisingly he was really into it when we were at the florist appts.
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Posted by grkbarbie
nope fh hasnt been to 1 vendor appt with me. not even the rh. i booked it then showed him.
he doesnt care. he and i are the same person when it comes to decor and he says ' the wedding is for the woman' men just show up.
besides, i do better alone at appts. i dont have to hear him huff and puff and grunt.
ppl are such an inconvenience to me. i cant even go shopping with ppl!
SAME!!! Lol. And to be honest its soooo much easier this way! I get to do it the way I want lol
MrsCM
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He didn't go to anything during the school year but this summer he's been to pretty much everything with me just because he's around.
T E R I
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FH only came to sign the contract for the RH. I went to all the appointments and dragged my sister and my mom with me. FH trusts me with all the wedding planning details
firemans gal
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So far he's gone to all. We'll see how long that last
Nina1010
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I went with some BMs to scout RHs, but once I narrowed down my top choices, FH came to the rest for his opinion. As for all other vendors, he joined me for each and every one of them. He met and loved the florist we chose more than any vendor actually. I love Gina too though.
Good luck.
jlt2010
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FH has actually gone to every appt with me. He says that he wants to know whats going on so that it's not like he walks into the room surprised by everything. He's actually had quite a few ideas of his own.
Matos2Conroy
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FH has been attending all vendor appts as well as booking some appts for us to go on.
So far we have our RH, church, Photo/Video, and Limos booked. Currently working on DJs, then taking a much needed break.
He is extremely organized and has been such a great help so far.
Alexandra17
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He didn't go to the florist either with me but that's ok..he was like can I not go ?? IF I really wanted him to, I am sure he would have gone lol...other than that..he has gone to all the vendors with me.
