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Did I send my invites out too early???

Original post by danielle19755

My wedding is June 3rd, and I mailed them this morning.. My mom is giving me hell saying I mailed them out too early....

lilangel Posted:

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I don’t think you sent them out too early. I think it is fine. Some will wait to the last minute and others will respond right away. It is never too early in my honest opinion.

thelastresort Posted:

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My friend's wedding is June 2nd and her invites went out like 3 weeks ago and my cousin is on June 3rd and I got his invite like 2 weeks ago. I wouldn't worry about it.

DMart Posted:

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I mailed mine out two weeks ago and the wedding is June 2nd! I made the RSVP date April 21st, so I wanted to give about 5-6 weeks for people to get back to me. No one said it was too early.

danielle19755 Posted:

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Thanks ladies
imas98 Posted:

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I think it's right on time...you're giving people a month to reply.
AeroJenn Posted:

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My wedding is June 3rd and I sent mine out 2 weeks ago. So, no, you didnt send them out early at all.

AeroJenn Posted:

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Posted by DMartins

I mailed mine out two weeks ago and the wedding is June 2nd! I made the RSVP date April 21st, so I wanted to give about 5-6 weeks for people to get back to me. No one said it was too early.



Thats so funny -- my wedding is June 3rd, I sent mine out 2 weeks ago and my RSVP date is April 20th! great minds think alike.
portjeffbride Posted:

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heh, I sent ours out a month ago! (however, we did NOT send out save the dates, and also have a lot of OOT / out of country guests, and several guests who do A LOT of business travel and need a lot of notice about event specifics....)

as is, one person can come only out of luck! His business schedule for june was already full in january, and he'll be coincidentally coming back from the UK the day before our wedding...

So, it totally depends upon where your guests are, and how 'globe-trotting' their lifestyles are!




NY55angel Posted:

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not IMO. I am getting married the day before you, my RSVP is May 4th and I plan on sending my invites out the end of the week (if I can get all the envelopes printed ! ! !) You are giving people a little over / just about a month to respond., that's fine.
SuzArtie69 Posted:

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I don't think its too early, you'll need your finally count in May. When is your RSVP for? You'r close to memorial day too, so this will give people plenty of time.

mycrayon1 Posted:

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I'm getting married the day before and I sent mine out 2 weeks ago so NOPE I don't think so.

missalissa Posted:

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noo not too early, I did the same, i maied mine march 1st - my wedding is May 13th... one month to RSVP then a month from RSVP date to wedding...its fine =-)

happygirl07 Posted:

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A bit early but nothing to freak out about. You're good. Don't stress over it.

Bride4Mike07 Posted:

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if rsvp is May 1st, you're right on track!!!!!!

fallinlove91407 Posted:

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I think your right on time. We are getting married 9/14 and mailing ours on July 1st.

PegaLega Posted:

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I dont think its too early. I just sent mine out and everyone told me it was late-so I think you are fine! No sweat

RobbsWifey Posted:

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I don't think that's early at all. Figure you want your RSVP's back at least 3 weeks before the wedding and it'll take up to a week for the invites to make it to most guests, that leaves around 6 weeks time for people to respond. I think you're just fine.

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