Did you discuss the 'cake cutting' with your FH/DH?

Original post by sarahradio5

Apr 13, 2006 10:32 AM

Just wondering how all you girls handled the cake cutting? Did you and your FH discuss beforehand whether or not you were going to do a 'serious' cake cutting... did you threaten him with his life if he smushed it in your face?

I admit... I'm a little scared. I don't want to spend all the money on the dress and makeup... to have buttercream all over! Maybe just a bit of cream on the nose would be cute, but I don't want to be attacked! lol.

Goldi1021 Posted: Apr 13, 2006 10:58 AM

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DH knew better than to do something stupid.

sarahradio5 Posted: Apr 13, 2006 10:58 AM

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We haven't discussed it yet, but I THINK I'm okay since my FH HATES being the center of attention. Although... with a few drinks in him, who knows? Crap... I'm scared. lol

I hope MY photographer has the 'talk' with us! If not... I'll have to go with 'No sex for you!' as the threat! lol

jenntony Posted: Apr 13, 2006 11:00 AM

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we both talked it over and we are doing the serious thing no smooshing.

chrissyandvin Posted: Apr 13, 2006 11:02 AM

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Posted by JanuaryBride06

We had the cake talk. I told him that if he smooshed cake in my face, he wasn't getting any that night.

I like this idea!! I will make sure to tell my FH that one!!

MrsWmson2be Posted: Apr 13, 2006 12:10 PM

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We haven't had 'the talk' yet. I'm dreading it.

thelilacone Posted: Apr 13, 2006 12:20 PM

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we both agreed not to do the smushing, cause we both think it's not appropriate. Then when we went to meet with our photographer, she had that talk with us too.

babybug631 Posted: Apr 13, 2006 12:25 PM

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I told DH if he did that I would kill him. I did not want my dress to have chocolate cake on it!!!!

JandJ1224 Posted: Apr 13, 2006 12:27 PM

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I have had this talk with FH MANY TIMES, I am sure he will respect me and my wishes.

Mrs. dleeny Posted: Apr 13, 2006 12:28 PM

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not really... we probably discussed it once for 30 seconds. we both agreed not to smush cake in each other's faces. it's just not us, nothing to discuss really.

sr081906 Posted: Apr 13, 2006 12:31 PM

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I talked to FH also. I told him his 1 minute of fun would ruin the $$$ on make-up and all the photos afterwards.

RadioLau Posted: Apr 13, 2006 12:45 PM

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I am pretty sure the bride goes first. FI says I will set the mood. He will follow my lead.

bluesashbride Posted: Apr 13, 2006 12:47 PM

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I actually wanted to smoosh cake and DH did not. But at our engagement party I did anyways--mistake. He did not like it AND got me back by smooshing me with extra smoosh! After that I realized I did not want wedding cake all over my $$ wedding dress, hair and make-up for the $$ photog to take pictures of in front of all our friends and family. So we were very good at the wedding and now I am glad!!!!

tbtmickey Posted: Apr 13, 2006 01:03 PM

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We talked about it, and we're not going to smoosh it in each others faces, I hate that!!! And he's going first, so if he does it, he's going to get it really bad! And he can find his own ride to the hotel since I booked that limo!

ewickens Posted: Apr 13, 2006 01:04 PM

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FH and I already discussed it and we're both going to be clean when feeding the other b/c we both agreed we don't like the look of smooshed cake on each other, or our clothes.

SeptBride70 Posted: Apr 13, 2006 01:04 PM

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no discussion needed-- he KNOWS better than to do that!!!!

BernandRob Posted: Apr 13, 2006 01:25 PM

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We discussed it also, and even shook on it that it would be nice and their would be no ruining my hair and makeup. He said he didn't like the whole cake in the face thing either.

evnme Posted: Apr 13, 2006 02:23 PM

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he has been told that i will kill him if he smushes cake on my face.

NovemberBride06 Posted: Apr 13, 2006 03:21 PM

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yes, we discussed it after watching one of those wedding video shows (Wild Weddings i think it was called) and the couple went crazy with the cake smooshing and the bride actually fell down. he insisted that we don't smoosh the cake in each other's faces. i'm glad we agreed on that one!

Mikeysgirl Posted: Apr 13, 2006 11:09 PM

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He soo wants to smush cake on my face. I told him that if he did I would walk right out of the reception. I'm still not sure if he's going to do it, but he better not try!