Right now we're in the process of planning my bach. party. We're talking about the prices of limos and its going to be $80pp...then we're going out to dinner, going out after.
I've never been in a bridal party before, so I dont know if my BP was planning on paying for me. This whole post probably sounds bad lol....so let me try and clarify- I dont mind paying for myself- in fact, that would be better since they're spending so much on the wedding, the shower, etc. But do you think they'll try and pay for me? Should I say anything?
I dont want to come off as a brat...or as though I expect them to- thats far from the truth.
I also need to know how much $$$ i need to put aside for the festivities!
Jna2010
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we paid for fsil's share for hers, and my girls are paying for my air/hotel cost, usually thats how it goes
saralee1978
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Posted by grkbarbie
fh and i paid for ourselves and planned it ( jack n jill) looking back, i feel as though the BP should have chipped in for us or at least OFFFERED.. but NOPE. it was 170 pp for an overnight cruise on NCL GEM, which i think is super reasonable. then again, no1 in my bp offered to even HELP me or ask how i was doing with any planning.. im sure ur girls are diff.
when u speak to ur moh.. tell her this is what u were thinking of doing for the bach party..limo, dinenr drinks.. u will prob sense it if they will be paying for u just by speaking to her.
why is the limo so much?
I have a bad feeling my bridal party is going to let me pay for anything for me. They already decided that they don't want to do what I wanted for my b-party (go to the wineries), and instead, they want a night in the city, which is like the last thing I want, because we do that all the time.
Sigh.....all you girls have great friends.
grrulz
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i didnt' pay for a thing
latinaj
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i'm paying for myself... but my bparty sux so i knew i would be paying
kimmaymb20
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Everyone that I've been to the bride was taken care of by either everyone or just the bp. Its your last big night as a single lady they are supposed to treat you.
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Posted by kris_gets_hitched
Whenever I've gone to a bach party, regardless of if I was in the BP or not, all of the girls in the group chipped in for the bride's portion of the night!
Doesn't sound bratty at all!
Exactly!!!
BriansWifey
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we went to ac for mine and i didnt pay for anything. i offered to pay but they didnt take any money from me... not for dinner, drinks, the hotel...
stinenandy2010
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I didn't pay for anything the night of my party and in my experience from other bparties, the bride never pays.
gravemiss
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We are going away for the weekend and my Bridal party is paying for me. i keep offering money towards the hotel and stuff but they all keep saying no they do not want it
Lady12
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my bac party is in 2 weekends and I am not paying for a things, my MOHs are handling that. They dont even want to tell me what we are doing... but I have my suspicions... They know I am up for almost anything. I told them clearly where I draw the line so they are not issues.
