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Disappointed and Sad

Original post by MirabellaNYC

Soo after posting a review on a certain catering hall vendor, after one of my dearest friend's weddng last month, my words got competely misconstrued.
If you remember reading that review, which got deleted pretty quickly, you'll remember that it was 90% positive, and I had many great things to say about the reception. The only non positive feedback I had, which wasn't bashing, it was matter of fact about an incident that I expressed an opinion about. Nothing was to be negative, just informative. When my friend got back from her HM I told her about the incident, even though it wasn't a big deal.
Well, she had to go to the place to pick up things that were left, and needless to say, whoever she dealt with told her that there was a review here on LIW that completely bashed the wedding. She knows I'm on here, so of course the person hinted to me. This person completely exaggerated what was written (which wasn't even bad!) and now my dear friend is totally upset and thinks that I thought her wedding ******. Which it totally did not!!
I am really upset over this. So here's my advice to my fellow posters-
Watch what you post, because like the game of 'telephone', your words get completely rearranged and will bite you in the a**.
MrsDtoBe09 Posted:

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Oh man that totally stinks. Especially since it wasn't even like you said anything bad. I can't believe she would trust her rh over you!
Utterhappiness Posted:

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Im really sorry Jen Like B said, that is 100% BS! What do the vendors/halls do... the next day after the wedding do they come on here and stalk the boards for reviews?? Seriously????

Honey, I am so sorry
KittyGags Posted:

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Posted by Utterhappiness

Im really sorry Jen Like B said, that is 100% BS! What do the vendors/halls do... the next day after the wedding do they come on here and stalk the boards for reviews?? Seriously????

Honey, I am so sorry



You'd be surprised! One of my immediate family members is the exec chef at a hall on here and he was called into his bosses office to make sure that I wouldn't say anything to add or take away from their biz. Ummmm, ok?

At the end of the day, this is all a business...and a big business at that.

Jenn, I'm sorry this happened! I'm sure once you guys have a chance to talk it will all work out. I find the person we both know to be a pretty rational human being!
Future Mulligan Posted:

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this site is shady when it comes to things with vendors......and the vendors that come on here can be a little shady too....

i don't know what you said but it really s-u-c-k-s that your friend thinks you were bashing her wedding....maybe your friend will sneak on and see that there are lots of girls who actually read your post and didn't take it as you bashing the RH.....

Mrs B to Be Posted:

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thats really in poor taste of the reception hall.......she should be upset that they brought something to her attention that she would have never known about.....very tacky and childish....they whole concept of the wedding industry is to make the bride happy, not point out that a guest was displeased with something....what idiots

BarbieGrl10 Posted:

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Posted by BarbieGrl10

THATS F*CKING BULLSH!T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I totally remember what you posted and there was nothing bad at all! Just one tiny thing that was not the RHs fault. I'm sorry hunnie but these people have b@lls to say that you gave a bad review!





Barb I just love your wording !!!!! It is BS




Sorry to be such a potty mouth but it really annoys me!

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