why does it seem so hard to find true true friends? Why does it seem like I am always disappointed with the new friends that I make? Is it really impossible to find a friend that won't blow you off for a guy? sorry, just venting, trying to see if anyone else goes through the same thing....
butterfly20
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i keep getting that problem. the good friends i have their husbands now have crazy scheduals and all. sometimes its easier to not take the men out if they dont have stuff in common, like the situation with one of my friends now. these are the causes for why my bridal party is still not all picked
OctBride03
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I'm sorry your friends are disappointing you. It's said that as you get older you can count the amount of friends you have on one hand... and actually I am starting to believe that more and more.
Cheer up!
swags1016
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Deb,
I totally know what you are saying. After months of tears I have learned to stop counting on people and then you don't get disappointed, as sad as that is!
sonia
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i understand you SO well. it seems like every good girl friend ive made in college has left me for a guy. i don't understand it. even last year when i thought i made the best group of friends who would last through me having kids etc .. turns out half of 'em weren't worth it either. it's a horible feeling .. but you're better off finding out that they're not worth it, then trusting them to support you when they're not going to.
sorry you have to go through this
shelzyp
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Sorry that this is happening to you!!! Some girls are just stupid, since they would leave a freidn for a guy.!!!!!
MarcellaBella
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It is sad and I'm sorry that you're going through this,but you wil truly realize who your TRUE friends are.. god knows I have and it wasn't easy but I am glad to be rid of those people!
awwww to you. I have friends like that too, well now I consider then acquiantences. In time they will realize that they need you.
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well this may sound horrible, but IM glad I am not the only one that goes through this
Sometimes I just hate women! I dont want to be one of those wifes who just stays in the house w/ her hubby and doesnt hang out with girlfriends, but geeze, these women are DRIVING me to that. Why should I bother when we made plans and then I get blown off 2x in one week for guys!! This makes me have no motivation to go out of my way for them anymore.
Why is it so hard to find TRUE TRUE friends? I can honestly say that after planning this wedding the true colors have come out. For my bachelorette party --- its down to 4 people. But ya know what? I dont WANT the others there anymore.
MarcellaBella
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Don't feel bad.. I had one 2 BM's drop out but what are you going to do?
trust me it ****s, but am happier I found out now rather than having to cut people's faces out of my album lol
