Dish About Your Diva Moment

SoonToBeMrsONeill Posted: Apr 20, 2010 03:35 PM

Dish About Your Diva Moment

I know we've all had AT LEAST one diva/bridezilla moment... Dare to share ladies?

cmwals01 Posted: Apr 20, 2010 03:58 PM

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When I told my bridesmaid she is not to have pink hair at my wedding. Fri night we were at happy hour and I merely suggested she start growing it out now. We comprised and if it still bright pink, shes gonna have to get a wig.

StellaStar13 Posted: Apr 20, 2010 04:01 PM

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Posted by cmwals01

When I told my bridesmaid she is not to have pink hair at my wedding. Fri night we were at happy hour and I merely suggested she start growing it out now. We comprised and if it still bright pink, shes gonna have to get a wig.

sounds like a fair compromise, did you make it clear that the wig must be a 'normal' hair color?

cmwals01 Posted: Apr 20, 2010 04:04 PM

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I think I made myself clear when I suggested she start growing it out. I might have been a bit tipsy and it came out more or less like 'Female dog u best not have pink hair for my wedding' I think we all get what I meant by female dog.

StellaStar13 Posted: Apr 20, 2010 04:04 PM

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I have had a few tiffs w/my parents about things but I wouldn't consider them bridezilla moments b/c its not my parents wedding.

The ONLY thing I am putting my foot down about and I have yet to do it regarding my ladies is that they must NOT have tan lines. I can not handle them and honestly, I feel they ruin pics so, I dont care if they spray or fakin' bakin' but as long as they are all one consistent color we are all good.

StellaStar13 Posted: Apr 20, 2010 04:05 PM

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Posted by cmwals01

I think I made myself clear when I suggested she start growing it out. I might have been a bit tipsy and it came out more or less like 'Female dog u best not have pink hair for my wedding' I think we all get what I meant by female dog.

well said

SoonToBeMrsONeill Posted: Apr 20, 2010 04:13 PM

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Posted by StellaStar13

I have had a few tiffs w/my parents about things but I wouldn't consider them bridezilla moments b/c its not my parents wedding.

The ONLY thing I am putting my foot down about and I have yet to do it regarding my ladies is that they must NOT have tan lines. I can not handle them and honestly, I feel they ruin pics so, I dont care if they spray or fakin' bakin' but as long as they are all one consistent color we are all good.

Oh my gosh AAAAAAMAAAAAAZINGGGGGGG hahahahahahaha....

I'm gonna tell my girls the same thing :P

'I don't care if you spray or fakin' bake!'

You're awesome.

SoonToBeMrsONeill Posted: Apr 20, 2010 04:16 PM

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So the only 'moment' I've had so far has been with my dress... The FH and I agreed on a budget for all of my 'Bridal Essentials' (dress, shoes, hair, makeup, etc....) So I went shopping, found my dress and my parents disagreed, they said it was too much money and the dress wasn't worth it, but because my FH and I are paying for it I put my foot down :) teehee

IrinaBNY Posted: Apr 20, 2010 04:27 PM

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I told my girls..NO STRAIGHT HAIR.. I don't care what they do with their hair.. but blowing hair out and leaving it down is NOT an option :)

SoonToBeMrsONeill Posted: Apr 20, 2010 04:49 PM

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Posted by IrinaBNY

I told my girls..NO STRAIGHT HAIR.. I don't care what they do with their hair.. but blowing hair out and leaving it down is NOT an option :)

Haha I don't think that's too bad ;)

bluj786 Posted: Apr 20, 2010 05:01 PM

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there will be NO tan lines!!i told my girls to go out and get strapless baithing suits

halfbaked Posted: Apr 20, 2010 05:10 PM

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Hmmm I think I've been extremely accomodating to everyone. My mom keeps coming up with DIY projects and saying they were my idea. Sure, I said 'Hey that's cute' but that's a far cry from 'How can we do this ourselves?' Her recent project is she's making a black and white damask room divider and I don't like how it's coming out. I said I just don't like it (in the NICEST way possible) and my mom and my aunt rant on and on for 10 minutes about what a biatch and bridezilla I am. Naturally I consider it 'bridezilla behavior' to disagree with anyone. So finally I pursed my lips and said 'Fine, but I want you both to know that this is YOUR baby, if you don't want my opinions, I want nothing to do with it. This wasn't my idea in the first place.' And then they realized I was annoyed and tried to include me in the work and I just kept saying 'Whatever you like.' That's about as bridezilla as I've gotten thus far.

SoonToBeMrsCampos Posted: Apr 20, 2010 05:46 PM

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French mani/pedis, no extra jewlery other than the doj, NO WATCHES!

And absolutely NO PANTYLINES!!! Then FHs 14yo cousin who's a BM said, 'whats that?' I turned to her and said either you wear a thong or go comando!! Hahahaha

Oh and I instructed FHs mother to spread the word that this is a formal affair and everyone should be dressed appropriately (no jeans!)

ElovesJ117 Posted: Apr 20, 2010 06:40 PM

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsCampos

And absolutely NO PANTYLINES!!! Then FHs 14yo cousin who's a BM said, 'whats that?' I turned to her and said either you wear a thong or go comando!! Hahahaha

OMG that is toooo much Did your FH want to kill you? If I said that to my FH's younger cousin I think he would kill me hahah

LoveyDovey Posted: Apr 20, 2010 07:58 PM

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ive been really good so far!!!

i dont care what my bms wear or how they do they hair

none of them would EVER EVER have tan lines, thank god so i dont have to worry about that

i like the no panty lines rule! I didn't think of that

I think the only Diva moment I had was when I picked a dress way over budget

that and demanding FH let us get married at the Planting Fields instead of RH

Dc1204 Posted: Apr 20, 2010 10:38 PM

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HaHa...I would def. call it diva moments, I don't like bridezilla lol it reminds me to much of the show and sometimes those girls are NUTS. Anyway, I need everything to be perfect, so all of my DIY projects I am doing on my own and no one can help me. Because if they mess up I can yell and *itch at them, if they don't help, I have no one to *itch at. Although I will prob. find a reason!!

SoonToBeMrsCampos Posted: Apr 20, 2010 10:52 PM

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Posted by ElovesJ117

Posted by SoonToBeMrsCampos

And absolutely NO PANTYLINES!!! Then FHs 14yo cousin who's a BM said, 'whats that?' I turned to her and said either you wear a thong or go comando!! Hahahaha

OMG that is toooo much Did your FH want to kill you? If I said that to my FH's younger cousin I think he would kill me hahah

hahaha no, i just got a look. they're all used to me by now!! im like the fun one that they can all talk to. lol:

Watever143 Posted: Apr 20, 2010 11:29 PM

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I remember I told my girls....NO TANS LINE, HAIR HAS TO BE DONE, AND DRESSES NEED TO BE TOUCHING GROUND DURING ALTERATIONS BECAUSE I HATE LONG DRESS WITH FEET SHOWING

TraceySLP1 Posted: Apr 21, 2010 07:54 AM

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closest thing i got to a bridezilla/diva moment was insisting that all the bm dresses be long....
everyone had a different opinion and i couldn't make everyone happy so i just said.....they have to be LONG, deal with it! ur getting to pick ANY STYLE u want!

i think i've been MORE than accomodating!

whispersamethyst Posted: Apr 21, 2010 08:25 AM

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My bridesmaids were picking their own dresses, and of course my sister (MOH) wants to get something that's different and really stands out. Everything she picked I didn't like and I had to remind her that the only person who should really stand out is ME since I am the bride and all.